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renuka said:
My dear,

These days no one is the pawn in any game to be cheated.
Most girls themselves do not feel cheated.
Everyone is a player themselves.
It's not like Tamil movie cinema where girls cry after everything is over screaming"Waah Waah you have to marry me cos I have be spoilt"

No one cries like that anymore..they enter the game with consent,play their cards well and if they do not like the outcome they just move on..no one feels cheated cos that's how they view life.
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dear madam !
i am talking about ideal condition.i too know the mind set up of the new generation.they want to utilise the weakness of the other party. "kodupathai koduthu peruvatai peruvom" has become the order of the day . in olden days it was sparingly used.even in tamil cinema the heroine is not worried &want to take vengeance only. only TV serial are made of old mamiyar & in-laws sentiments.equally smart the other party also.it is a matter of who out smart whom
guruvayurappan
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:
A trophy wife is is the right.
She will be pampered /protected/displayed /exhibited and NOT used.
So she can continue with her old time friends as before.
As long she does NOT decide to get rid of the rich sucker,
she is not committing any crime either.
A very convenient plan for everyone involved. :peace:
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dear VR !
nice picture about trophy wife .it reminds the character of Nandhini (wife of peria pazhu vettaiyar )in kalki novel Ponniyin selvan
guruvayurappan
 
renuka said:
But even these days so called good home girls too are on a look out for rich good home boys to marry cos they want to have an easy life.

Isn't earning capacity the main factor in choosing a groom these days?

The other day one woman told me she wants to book my son for her daughter and she said since he is the only child he will inherit everything and her daughter won't have to worry.

My son was telling me later "amma what does that lady think that her daughter can get all money for no reason at all? Tell her to get lost and make sure her daughter also has the status to match before they can think of marrying a boy just for his money"


So technically I feel there is not much difference these days between any type of girl.
Its just that the so called good home girl has a Thali on her neck and the other types don't.
But both are chasing for money any how.
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dear madam !
here is the real story . a poor brahmin girl married a well to do old man of 60 yearsof age ,got a male baby. within a year the old man died and every body is pitying for the young girl of just 20 years saying in a such a young age she is widow.
suddenly within 6 months ,the girl got married to a reddiar community boy and happilly setteled with new husband (well build &charming )with huge wealth&baby inherited from the old man. once everybody were feeling sorry for her and the same people were speaking ill of her.Is the sequence of actions real or made to happen. onenume puriyale olagathille !
guruvayurappan
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:
Yes but the 'good girls' of the past were chasing money

within a healthy and acceptable relationship.

The wise other girls are doing it otherwise!

By the way is your son already status conscious!!!

I did not know the word until long after my wedding.
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dear VR !
kindly tell me what is status !
till now i do not know !! i know only affection &mariyathai
guruvayurappan
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:
Can a father rape his own daughter??? :shocked:

Can he rape his own three year old daughter???

Was it a father's day gift from him to his daughter??? :mad2:
The life long aftereffect it will have on that poor helpless child!!!:whoo:

It is not any illiterate man walking on the street.

It is a responsible official of a foreign country.

I read with sympathy about the life of Marilyn Monroe.

Her mother was mentally imbalanced.

So this girl Norma Jeane Mortenson grew in foster homes.

When a man feeds and clothes a girl/woman he assumes that

he OWNS her body for doing whatever he likes to do,

forgetting that there lives a spirit inside the body

and it too has feelings, emotions, likes, dislikes,

aversions and repulsions like his own spirit.

She was sexually abused in those foster homes,

which made terrible imprints in her mind

and affected her behavior throughout her life.

Well if the original father can DO this mean act,

why not a foster father???

After all she was not his own blood!!! :doh:
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dear madams !
kindly put an end to discuss this subject further .repeatedly talking about this reduce the value of this forum . mallakka paduthukkondu thupuvathupol. there are many anecdotes in our puranas to show how person acts in situation where his morally &sense is not good.our great KIrupanatha varior used to say in his discourses that even a son &mother should not sleep alone in a room
guruvayurappan
 
Fashion... Set it! Do not imitate it!!!
Imitation may be the best form of admiration.
But often it ends in a the dance of a turkey and
the scorching stripes of tabby cat!
 
Relevance to the topic determines the validity of the repetition. :decision:

Where it makes sense, a post has value. :high5:

Bur repetition for the sake of repetition is just :horn: :attention:
 
It is far better that she married a man and settled down instead of enjoying her new found freedom and fortune by taking boy friends left, right and middle! :doh:

guruvayurappan said:
dear madam !
here is the real story . a poor brahmin girl married a well to do old man of 60 yearsof age ,got a male baby. within a year the old man died and every body is pitying for the young girl of just 20 years saying in a such a young age she is widow.
suddenly within 6 months ,the girl got married to a reddiar community boy and happilly setteled with new husband (well build &charming )with huge wealth&baby inherited from the old man. once everybody were feeling sorry for her and the same people were speaking ill of her.Is the sequence of actions real or made to happen. onenume puriyale olagathille !
guruvayurappan
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I can tell you how to identify a status conscious person!
His / her eyebrows will move up higher in the forehead.
His/ her nose will be pointing high up in the sky.
He/ she will look above you, below you and never AT YOU!

guruvayurappan said:
dear VR !
kindly tell me what is status !
till now i do not know !! i know only affection &mariyathai
guruvayurappan
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got this by email:

An Indian went to US and had a meeting with Bill Clinton.
Bill: I want to show you the US advancement. Come with me.
He takes him to a forest.
Bill: Dig the ground. Indian did it.
Bill: more...more. ..more... He digged up to 100 feet.
Bill: So now, try to search something.
Indian: I got a wire.
Bill : you know, it shows that even 100 years ago we used to have telephones.
Indian became frustrated. He invited Bill to India. Next year Bill was in India
Indian : I want to show you our advancement. The same...he takes Bill
to a forest.
Indian: Dig it. Bill does.
Indian : more...more. ..m.?l. Bill goes up to almost 400 feet.....
Indian : try to find something. Bill tries.
Indian : Did you get anything?
Bill : No, there is nothing here.
Indian : you know, it shows that even 400 years ago we used to have WIRELESS!!
 
Foot notes for those who do not visit the literature section:

The following posts are dedicated to me by my dear loving sister.

Post # 1708, # 1709, # 1712 & # 1713. Thanks a lot! :yo:
 
If I dedicate anything to anyone

I will be the first one to tell it out clearly.

These are proverbs told pictorially.

They are applicable for the entire humanity.

Hence they dare dedicated to the entire human race,

and not to any Mr or Mrs or Miss X or Y or Z!!!

I TOO never enter any thread other than my poem thread

in the Literature section for reasons of my own.
 
Who but an Indian
with Infinite Imagination can
think up of this thing??? :rolleyes:

renuka said:
got this by email:

An Indian went to US and had a meeting with Bill Clinton.
Bill: I want to show you the US advancement. Come with me.
He takes him to a forest.
Bill: Dig the ground. Indian did it.
Bill: more...more. ..more... He digged up to 100 feet.
Bill: So now, try to search something.
Indian: I got a wire.
Bill : you know, it shows that even 100 years ago we used to have telephones.
Indian became frustrated. He invited Bill to India. Next year Bill was in India
Indian : I want to show you our advancement. The same...he takes Bill
to a forest.
Indian: Dig it. Bill does.
Indian : more...more. ..m.?l. Bill goes up to almost 400 feet.....
Indian : try to find something. Bill tries.
Indian : Did you get anything?
Bill : No, there is nothing here.
Indian : you know, it shows that even 400 years ago we used to have WIRELESS!!
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My strength is as the strength of ten,
because my heart is pure. :angel:
Alfred Lord Tennyson.

Open not thine heart to everyman, :nono:
lest he requite thee with a shrewd turn.
Ecclesiastes 8: 19
 
"இது என்ன பிரமாதம்?"

வாட்டம் கொடுத்து டைல்ஸ் பதித்து இருந்ததால்

வாட்டர் stagnation வர வாய்ப்பு இருக்க வில்லை.

மழை நீர் ஜம்மென்று பாய்ந்து செல்லும் வெளியே.

வழி நெடுக பாத்திபோல மணல் திட்டும் ஒன்று இருந்தது.

மணல் திட்டை உயர்த்தினார்கள்; எதற்கோ தெரியாது! :noidea:

வாசல் கேட் வழியாக நீர் வெளியே சென்று கொண்டிருந்தது.

வாசலில் ஒரு அணை கட்டினார்கள்; எதற்கோ தெரியாது.:noidea:

இப்பொது மொத்தக் காலனியும் ஒரு giant frog pond !!!.

நீர் வெளியே செல்ல முடியாது; அணை தடுக்கும்.

நீரை டைல்ஸ் உறிஞ்சாது; உலரத் தான் வேண்டும்.

அதுவரை மொத்தக் காலனியும் ஒரு பெரிய

skating rink ...skates அணியத் தேவை இல்லை. :rolleyes:

இப்போது மீண்டும் குழி தோண்டுகிறார்கள்!

அப்புறம் சொல்வேன் நடக்கும் கூத்தை எல்லாம்!!! :whoo:
 
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The flying mouse (Walt Disney ) cartoon has a valuable message

for people of all ages!

A mouse would wish to possess wings so that it could FLY!

A fairy would grant its wish and the mouse would get two bat's wings.

Now it neither a mouse nor a bat.

Mother mouse would lock up the house! it could not go home now!

The bats would make fun of the mouse saying "You are a nobody now!"

The mouse would wish to get rid of the wings.

The fairy would help it but after giving this valuable message.

"Be yourself and Do your best! Fortune will smile on you! "
 
Today I was wondering why my vacuum flask was not working as well cos the water was not as hot as usual.
I unscrewed the flask bottom carefully to check something but it fell as I opened it and it broke into pieces.

I could not help noticing a mud like substance with the broken pieces and was wondering what is this?
Then I Google searched and found out that a marshmallow mud like substance is placed between the layers of the flask to help insulate it.

I never knew about this before.
So I gain some knowledge even though my flask broke!
 
Hope this gets rid of this person!
I have been getting a bit annoyed with an elderly gentleman who is my patient.
He keeps complaining of some itchiness at his nether regions for which I treated it and told him to control his diabetes status cos some Diabetics can be prone to a fungal infection called Candida.

But this gentleman keeps calling the clinic on and off telling he is still not ok.
I have checked him several times and each time the lesions are fine and looked healed.

But again he showed up today saying he wants me to do a circumcision for him.
I said I will refer him to the Surgeon and as I was writing the referral he says
"Doc I don't want to go to the surgeon..can you just examine me and see what is wrong?"
And then he went on giving real explicit details of how his symptoms worsen. when he engages in intercourse with his wife.(I felt that much explicit details in choicest words were totally unnecessary and I was not getting a good feel about this person)

I told him since his symptoms are so bad I will refer him to the surgeon.
He was refusing to go and was asking me to still check him.
I politely refused to check him and suddenly he comes up with this weird symptom,he said "Doc you got to examine me..the skin of the region has become rubber like"

I just looked at him,handed him his referral and said "you must the first man to have a built in condom!"

He didn't say a word and left.

I just hope he does not come back here again.
Occupational Hazard!!
 
Oh dear Renu!

You could have uttered these words :moony:

long before the patient tried your patience! :becky:

He probably wants to impress you on his

non-existing powers and prowess. :rolleyes:

renuka said:
Hope this gets rid of this person!
I have been getting a bit annoyed with an elderly gentleman who is my patient.
He keeps complaining of some itchiness at his nether regions for which I treated it and told him to control his diabetes status cos some Diabetics can be prone to a fungal infection called Candida.

But this gentleman keeps calling the clinic on and off telling he is still not ok.
I have checked him several times and each time the lesions are fine and looked healed.

But again he showed up today saying he wants me to do a circumcision for him.
I said I will refer him to the Surgeon and as I was writing the referral he says
"Doc I don't want to go to the surgeon..can you just examine me and see what is wrong?"
And then he went on giving real explicit details of how his symptoms worsen. when he engages in intercourse with his wife.(I felt that much explicit details in choicest words were totally unnecessary and I was not getting a good feel about this person)

I told him since his symptoms are so bad I will refer him to the surgeon.
He was refusing to go and was asking me to still check him.
I politely refused to check him and suddenly he comes up with this weird symptom,he said "Doc you got to examine me..the skin of the region has become rubber like"

I just looked at him,handed him his referral and said "you must the first man to have a built in condom!"

He didn't say a word and left.

I just hope he does not come back here again.
Occupational Hazard!!
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