Think it over!

[renuka]

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The first girl will throw herself at his feet. :hail:

But why so many girls unless he uses them,

gives them hope, dodges getting married, and

keeps the option open to all for all times???

If his life is an open book, the foolish girls must sense that,

his real purpose is to only play with them

and not marry them and settle down in life.

Dear VR ji,

Girls are no fools either.They milk a rich guy maximum for cash,gifts etc.
Girls are not really into marriage so soon.
Some become cash rich by dating rich guys and then open their own businesses like a boutique or beauty parlor or even study further.

These girls have no intention of settling down and might move on for some old rich guy cos they know for an old man they will be a trophy wife.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

A trophy wife is is the right.
She will be pampered /protected/displayed /exhibited and NOT used.
So she can continue with her old time friends as before.
As long she does NOT decide to get rid of the rich sucker,
she is not committing any crime either.
A very convenient plan for everyone involved. eace:

Dear VR ji,

Girls are no fools either.They milk a rich guy maximum for cash,gifts etc.
Girls are not really into marriage so soon.
Some become cash rich by dating rich guys and then open their own businesses like a boutique or beauty parlor or even study further.

These girls have no intention of settling down and might move on for some old rich guy cos they know for an old man they will be a trophy wife.

 

[renuka]

A trophy wife is is the right.
She will be pampered /protected/displayed /exhibited and NOT used.
So she can continue with her old time friends as before.
As long she does NOT decide to get rid of the rich sucker,
she is not committing any crime either.
A very convenient plan for everyone involved. eace:

Yes Yes..it's symbiotic and eco friendly cos involves lots of recycling of resources.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

The man 'milks' the beauty and youth of the woman.
The woman 'milks' the man's money, power and protection.
A wonderful BARTER system.
But in the olden days such girls were called by
names not sounding very good or respectable.:gossip:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Symbiotic relationship automatically means (mutual) parasites.

Yes Yes..it's symbiotic and eco friendly cos involves lots of recycling of resources.

 

[renuka]

The man 'milks' the beauty and youth of the woman.
The woman 'milks' the man's money, power and protection.
A wonderful BARTER system.
But in the olden days such girls were called by
names not sounding very good or respectable.:gossip:

Milk maid(female) and Cash Cow(male).

 

[renuka]

The man 'milks' the beauty and youth of the woman.
The woman 'milks' the man's money, power and protection.
A wonderful BARTER system.
But in the olden days such girls were called by
names not sounding very good or respectable.:gossip:

But even these days so called good home girls too are on a look out for rich good home boys to marry cos they want to have an easy life.

Isn't earning capacity the main factor in choosing a groom these days?

The other day one woman told me she wants to book my son for her daughter and she said since he is the only child he will inherit everything and her daughter won't have to worry.

My son was telling me later "amma what does that lady think that her daughter can get all money for no reason at all? Tell her to get lost and make sure her daughter also has the status to match before they can think of marrying a boy just for his money"


So technically I feel there is not much difference these days between any type of girl.
Its just that the so called good home girl has a Thali on her neck and the other types don't.
But both are chasing for money any how.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Yes but the 'good girls' of the past were chasing money

within a healthy and acceptable relationship.

The wise other girls are doing it otherwise!

By the way is your son already status conscious!!!

I did not know the word until long after my wedding.

 

[renuka]

Yes but the 'good girls' of the past were chasing money

within a healthy and acceptable relationship.

The wise other girls are doing it otherwise!

By the way is your son already status conscious!!!

I did not know the word until long after my wedding.

He is not really status conscious ..he has friends from all types of homes.
He was telling me that he wants to be a doctor and wants to marry a dentist.
I asked him why dentist?
He said so that children will be taken care off if they fall sick.
As a doctor he can look after general health of the child and if he has a dentist wife she can look after the oral health of the child.

It is just that he says that a wife who matches him in education and status will not be coming for his money cos she already has it.
He said he doesn't want all his parent's hard earned money going to someone who doesn't deserve it.

He can really think far ahead.

 

[Anand Manohar]

Dear Tmt VR

I didn't go anywhere - just lying low - watching the threads oscillating between two extremes.
On one extreme we have the humorous and the other extreme is hilarious! Somewhere in between, Renu
has found her "GURU", online !

Wow
Yay Yem

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Can a father rape his own daughter??? :shocked:

Can he rape his own three year old daughter???

Was it a father's day gift from him to his daughter??? :mad2:
The life long aftereffect it will have on that poor helpless child!!!:whoo:

It is not any illiterate man walking on the street.

It is a responsible official of a foreign country.

I read with sympathy about the life of Marilyn Monroe.

Her mother was mentally imbalanced.

So this girl Norma Jeane Mortenson grew in foster homes.

When a man feeds and clothes a girl/woman he assumes that

he OWNS her body for doing whatever he likes to do,

forgetting that there lives a spirit inside the body

and it too has feelings, emotions, likes, dislikes,

aversions and repulsions like his own spirit.

She was sexually abused in those foster homes,

which made terrible imprints in her mind

and affected her behavior throughout her life.

Well if the original father can DO this mean act,

why not a foster father???

After all she was not his own blood!!! :doh:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

I thought that a dentist can make real good money.

After all we have only one or two of every body part

but everyone 32 teeth which can develop
equal number of problems or more!!! opcorn:

Money, muck and knowledge MUST be spread

to become useful to everyone.

But Money joins hand with Money.

Beauty joins hand with beauty.

Tall people unite producing taller people.

Fat people unite producing fatter people.

Short people unite producing shorter people.

At this rate soon we will have only superlatives

in every category and no normal or medium people!!! :fear:

He is not really status conscious ..he has friends from all types of homes.
He was telling me that he wants to be a doctor and wants to marry a dentist.
I asked him why dentist?
He said so that children will be taken care off if they fall sick.
As a doctor he can look after general health of the child and if he has a dentist wife she can look after the oral health of the child.

It is just that he says that a wife who matches him in education and status will not be coming for his money cos she already has it.
He said he doesn't want all his parent's hard earned money going to someone who doesn't deserve it.

He can really think far ahead.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Heart.

Whatever comes form the heart carries
the heat and color of its birthplace.
Oliver Wendell Holmes.

The heart is wiser than the intellect. :decision:
Josiah G. Holland.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

I am SURE you too can oscillate between the hilarious and the humorous.

it is Time and so :welcome: to join the gang! :grouphug:

Is Renu's new guru online mannu aks manwar aka....???

Dear Tmt VR

I didn't go anywhere - just lying low - watching the threads oscillating between two extremes.
On one extreme we have the humorous and the other extreme is hilarious! Somewhere in between, Renu
has found her "GURU", online !

Wow
Yay Yem

 

[renuka]

Is Renu's new guru online mannu aks manwar aka....???

Manwar=Mannu=Trimurti??

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Manwar=Mannu=Trimurti??

May be three-in-one or one-as-three

 

[Anand Manohar]

Dear Doc

Thank God, she didn't spell MANOHAR (!) - she has a way of misspelling - Usha for Uma etc.

Anyway, I am in no way qualified to be your Guru. I didn't announce myself as a Mahaan, arrive on a throne
with a crown on a gleaming niche exclusive limousine, nor will I ever leave behind fortunes and treasures.

I didn't inherit the mantle of a pontiff, huge monetary legacies or even a captive herd of faithfuls. Modern day
demons like money and power have not evicted the original dwellers like truth and peace from my heart. I don't
perch myself on pompous pedestals, pontificating on everything - from court cases to media matters to hot
flaming film stars. I believe that soul searching lies in my inner sanctums in quietude, contemplation and meditation
and not in salacious sounds of spirited orgies.

I don't cause an inferiority complex in the minds of rationalists and atheists. Don't you agree that there is no way
I can be a modern day Guru?

But I am used to telexes and faxes [ Thank God not emails ] addressed to my attention as " Ahmed Munawar /
Arnold Manweir " - came back to Chennai when it became Manogaran / Manokar !

Goodluck in your spiritual quest.
Guruvethunai
Yay Yem

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

How do we honor the dazzling stars of the silver screen ?

By naming the real stars in the sky after them!!!

Both Madhuri and Shahid have stars

in the Orion Constellation named after them.

What a lovely way to become immortal like Dhruva!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Fallingwater or Kaufmann Residence is a house designed by architect

Frank Lloyd Wright in 1935 in rural southwestern Pennsylvania, 50

miles (80 km) southeast of Pittsburgh. The home was built partly over a

waterfall on Bear Run in the Mill Run section of Stewart Township,

Fayette County, Pennsylvania, in the Laurel Highlands of the Allegheny

Mountains.

(Source Wikipedia)

Now the news!!!

Hollywood celebrity Angelina has gifted Brad with a waterfall,

so that he can build his dream home similar to that of American

architect Frank Lloyd Wright’s classic house Fallingwater. WOW!!!

Bonus news.

I had the good fortune of visiting this house. It was fantastic!!

(The ceiling was very low for the average height of the Americans!!!)

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Some more views of this unusual house.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Ref # 1692.
Thank you for coming back A.M Ji!
Usha and Uma are two different names.
So it is not really a spelling mistake.
It is a case of mistaken identities.
If Yay Yem can stand for A.M
why not Usha stand for Uma or the other way.
The Lady and I have no confusion whatsoever!!!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Heart.

The heart has eyes that the brain knows nothing of.
Charles H. Parkhurst.

I know I have the body of a weak and feeble woman, :music:
but I have the heart and stomach of a king, :high5:
and of a king of England too. :moony:
Queen Elizabeth I

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Thank you Mr. A.M ji and Ms. Uma.
Nice to see you both back in action in the forum!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

"இது என்ன பிரமாதம்?"

கட்டுக்காரன் கூலியைக் கேட்டு
விக்கித்து நின்றான் அவன். :shocked:

"இது என்ன பிரமாதம்?
நானே கட்டுவேன் என் வீட்டை!"

மளமள வென்று செங்கல்லை அடுக்கித்
தளதள வென்று பூசிக் கொண்டே போனான்.

ஐந்தடி உயரம் வீடு வளர்ந்தபின் ஒருநாள்
கண்டிபிடித்தான்,"கதவு வைக்க வில்லையே!"

அதுவரை உள்ளே தாண்டி குதித்தால்
தெரியவே இல்லை கதவு இல்லாதது!

ஒரு சுவற்றை இடித்து நிலவைப் பதித்தான்.
மீண்டும் மள மளவென வேலை நடந்தது.

கூரை உயரம் வந்ததும் தான் தெரிந்தது ,
"அடடா ஜன்னல்கள் வைக்கவில்லையே!"

மீண்டும் சுவர்களைப் பெயர்த்து
மீண்டும் சுவர்களில் ஜன்னல்கள்.

இப்படி யாராவது செய்வார்களா என்று
தப்பான ஆராய்ச்சி செய்ய வேண்டாம்! :nono:

நிச்சயமாக செய்வார்கள் சிலரேனும்!
காரணம்.... நாளை சொல்வேன்!

 

[guruvayurappan]

Dear Visa ji,

We all have worked with him.He is an excellent doctor and goes out of the way to help patients.
He has even forked out his own money and bought wheel chairs for poor disabled patients.
He does lots of charity and as far as I know he is like an open book.
That's how we all know his escapades.
He is not a liar at all.

He is a very much loved doctor.

dear madam !
it is telling like
theriyatha devathaikku therintha pesase devalai
guruvayurappan