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Think or sink!

Once upon a time all the unmarried girls were really innocent .

Innocent to the extent to think that kissing made a baby to be

born. Those days movies would show the hero and heroine

come very close and then either the two flowers kissing or two

branches kissing, hiding them completely.

When one of my colleagues dilivered a baby boy we all visited her home.

Her mother was eloborating on the labor pain and the number of stitches it took etc.

I asked her "How was this baby born? I did not want to miss an opportunity to get my doubt cleared.

Her mother said, "The same way it had entered in!"

I was totally confused. How can such a big baby emerge from

the samll mouth and neck (since according to me the baby had

entered through kissing!)

It amuses me now, how dumb I had been then! :)

May be I am one even now!!! :rolleyes:
 
Those were the days of symbolism.

Kissing meant pregnancy would follow.

A Flickering flame put off meant death.

A swinging lantern meant confusion in the mind.

The villain stamping on the flowers worn by the heroine

meant that he had just violated her successfully.

They were so much better than the movies these days

which leave nothing to our imagination. :(

 
The moment Ityped the word pregnancy, this ad had to appear. :)

Isn't someone out there very very vigilant and alert??? :rolleyes:


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Quotes 1741 to 1750


#1741a. தீமை வரலாறு படைக்கும்; நன்மை அமைதி காக்கும்.

#1741b. Sin writes histories; goodness is silent.




#1742a. நேர்மையாளன் ஒரு எலும்புக்காக ஒரு நாயாக மாற மாட்டான்.

#1742b. A honest man does not make himself a dog for the sake of a bone.



#1743a. நேர்மையை நிரூபிக்கத் தேவை ஏற்பட்டால், அதன் மீது ஐயம் பிறக்கும்.

#1743b. The louder he talked of his honor, the faster we counted our spoons.



#1744a. நம்பிக்கை தகரும் போது, நற்பெயர் அழியும் போது, மனிதன் இறப்பான்.

#1744b. When faith is lost, when honor dies, the man is dead.



#1745a. நம்பிக்கையே ஏழையின் செல்வம்

#1745b. Hope is the poor man’s income.



#1746a. பெரிய நம்பிக்கை பெரிய மனிதனாக்கும்.

#1746b. Great hopes make great men.



#1747a. பணிவு இன்றிப் புனிதம் இல்லை

#1747b. There is no true holiness without humility.



#1748a. நல்ல கணவனின் மனைவி நல்லவள்.

#1748b. A good husband makes a good wife.



#1749a. அறியாமையின் துன்பம் அதன் பரிபூரணத் திருப்தியே.

#1749b. The tragedy of ignorance is its complacency.



#1750a. எதுவுமே அறியாதவன் எதற்கும் துணிவான்.

#1750b. He who knows nothing is confident in everything.

 
There is proverb saying "What does not kill you makes you stronger!"

This is as true of bugs and bacteria as of men and women.

What does not kill them make them stronger and drug resistant.

How else can we explain the super cockroaches which giggle when the repellent

is sprayed, the mosquitoes which fly against the powerfu wind churned by the

ceiling fan, the new strains of many more drug resistant diseases???
 
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A boy was watching the various stages of development of a butterfly. When it was about to emerge, it was struggling to tear open its cocoon with its wings.

He was moved to pity and helped carefully the butterfly to emerge from its cocoon. Lo and behold! The butterfly was unable to fly - since its wings lacked the strength to carry it.

It dawned on the boy that the struggle to tear open the cucoon was an exercise meant to build up the strength of its wings - so that it can take off the moment it emerges.

Moral:

Over protecting children will make them meek, mild and weak. We must be available at the background to help them whenever necessary. But we must also encourage them to do their part without expecting us to dote over them all the time.
 
Grandmas fall into three categories So also the grandpas.

1. Those who are lucky enough to live with their children and their families - wherever they have settled down.

2. Those who want to enjoy their independence - even while suffering secretly.

3. Those who live like the Proverbial Patti and Vikramaditya in slabs of 6 months.
They spend 6 months with their kids and for 6 months enjoy their independence.
 
Once upon a time all the unmarried girls were really innocent .

Innocent to the extent to think that kissing made a baby to be

born. Those days movies would show the hero and heroine

come very close and then either the two flowers kissing or two

branches kissing, hiding them completely.

When one of my colleagues dilivered a baby boy we all visited her home.

Her mother was eloborating on the labor pain and the number of stitches it took etc.

I asked her "How was this baby born? I did not want to miss an opportunity to get my doubt cleared.

Her mother said, "The same way it had entered in!"

I was totally confused. How can such a big baby emerge from

the samll mouth and neck (since according to me the baby had

entered through kissing!)

It amuses me now, how dumb I had been then! :)

May be I am one even now!!! :rolleyes:

LOL!

I cant stop laughing!

VR Ji..you must have been really innocent.

As far as I remember I never had the doubt on how children were born..dont know why that doubt never crossed my mind but I knew all about it when I turned 12 going on 13 cos my science text book had given a fairly good explanation about sex and babies.
 
Those were the days of symbolism.

Kissing meant pregnancy would follow.

A Flickering flame put off meant death.

A swinging lantern meant confusion in the mind.

The villain stamping on the flowers worn by the heroine

meant that he had just violated her successfully.

They were so much better than the movies these days

which leave nothing to our imagination. :(



Dear VR ji,

I like the movies now better..I used to hate the movies in the 80's.

They were always showing build up and over emphasizing the desperate need of a 1st night and sickening to watch.

That is why when it comes to romance I prefer western movies..its direct and no nonsense..and its beautifully shot and not desperate.
 
LOL!

I cant stop laughing!

VR Ji..you must have been really innocent.

As far as I remember I never had the doubt on how children were born..dont know why that doubt never crossed my mind but I knew all about it when I turned 12 going on 13 cos my science text book had given a fairly good explanation about sex and babies.

Dear Renu,
I must be your mother's contemporary I guess. :)
Those days these things were not taught
either in science or elsewhere! :loco:
 
Dear VR ji,

I like the movies now better..I used to hate the movies in the 80's.

They were always showing build up and over emphasizing the desperate need of a 1st night and sickening to watch.

That is why when it comes to romance I prefer western movies..its direct and no nonsense..and its beautifully shot and not desperate.

Dear Renu,
With this background in mind you may not find the despair so ugly.
All men and women were (supposed) to remain chaste until they got married.
So the desire and curiosity will be there in both of them for the unknown experience.
The sequence then was wedding => nuptial => sex => baby.
These days everything has been successfully separated from everything else.
Sex need NOT be after marriage. Sex need NOT be within marrriage.
So when there is nothing to hold the desire in check - there will be neither ciriosity nor despair.
Westerners had got liberated long long before we did!:rolleyes:
"Aayiram aaNdugal semiththa kaathal" was true of the past but not of now! :(
 
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Kapila tells his mother Devahuti that the Supreme Brahman dwells in each and every object of the entire creation. Then every human being, be it wife, husband, mother, father, teacher, friend, foe, or even that person whom you may think to be a fool, is thus a temple in which He resides. This bhava about God’s all pervading presence is the essence of true bhakti and all kinds of worship by individuals or groups of people or in temples that lack this bhava cannot become true worship, said Swami Paramasukhananda in a lecture. It is only given to realised souls to see God in all these forms, while the majority continue to ‘see and yet not see’ this fundamental truth. Swami Ramakrishna inculcated by example this perception of God-realisation in day-to-day life in his disciples.
Saint Namadeva lived in this bhakti bhava at all times and it is said that he enjoyed a one-to-one relationship with Lord Panduranga. Once, when in an inspired mood, he was engaged in writing poems on God, he had forgotten to eat the bread, ghee and sugar his wife had kept for him. All of a sudden, Namadeva realised that a dog had taken away the bread. He chased the dog and when he caught up with it, he offered it the ghee and sugar as well. He saw the very Lord Panduranga in the dog. The Lord certifies that Namadeva’s devotion is such that he cannot be deceived by any of His disguises since he is sure to recognise Him. Yagnyavalkya tells Maitreyi that the atma for whose sake one is willing to forsake all possessions has to be understood. It is not easy to attain the bhava that all of us are one.
One has to listen to this truth, contemplate on it and internalise it.
When Atma Jnana is gained, all fear arising from the perception of differences begins to fade away and one is able to transcend the sorrows of this world.
This is the state of experience of a Brahma Jnani and the basis of true bhakti..
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One such great Brahma Jnani is Mahaan Sri Sadhasiva Brahmendral and his 101[SUP]st[/SUP]
Aradhanai celebrations are planned at Nerur near Karur
on 28[SUP]th[/SUP] Apr’15 Tuesday.
As you may Be aware, Sri Sadhasiva Brahmendral has been a
contemporary of Shri Bodhendral Sadhguru & Shri Sridhara Iyyaval.
The secretary of the sabha Shri Narasimhan has informed that it is estimated
that at least a corpus of Rs.5/- lakhs may be required for this aradhanai.
Bhagwan Shri Ramana states that whatever one gives to others, he/she is
giving to themselves.
Shri Shri Krishna Anna Premi Anna states that any service done in
Any form to any Yathi will protect the next 7 generations.
So it is with this background we are approaching you to kindly
Volunteer with your contributions so that this aradhanai festival is supported
Appropriately.
Firstly, we request the various bhajan sabha organisers, secretaries, treasurers
To kindly seek some contributions through their contacts.
Similarly, we find a lot of Bagavathars, Musicians, Carnatic/Hindustani Artistes,
Various bhajan troup members who have been connected through this social media
May kindly send in their humble contributions.
So thro Facebook & other electronic media if we can manage to reach at least
500 people with each contributing around Rs.1000/- each this task can be
Accomplished. We know you & your family have been a very benevolent
person and have been contributing for such causes..
However this time we are also requesting you to extend this to your next circle
by approaching your office colleagues /friends/relatives etc. If each one of us can influence
by posting this message in our FB time line/whatsup and make some efforts to
contact at least 10 people and solicit some humble contributions starting
from Rs.100/- onwards this can be accomplished.
Kindly adopt the following process.
As most of us resort to sending the funds thro NEFT/RTGS transfers
The secretary of the Sabha, Shri Narasimham has put in a small request.
After transferring the funds, he has requested the contributor to
please text the NEFT/RTGS transaction code, amount transferred with
contributor’sfull name and address.. They are very particular on this
as they want to reach out the prasadam to the contributor & his family members.
The bank details for depositing the funds are provided below.
Nerur Sri Sadhasiva Brahmendra Sabha
Karnataka Bank -Karur Brach
SB acct no.430 2500 1000 42201
IFSC Code karb 0000430
Shri Narasimhan Secretary – Mob # 95439 89593.
Treasurer - Ravi – Mob # 98423 51430

For those who wish to contribute thro Money Order/Cheque/DD we are providing the
Address :
The Secretary,
Nerur Sri Sadhasiva Brahmendra Sabha
Agraharam, Nerur Post, Karur 639 004.

The aradhanai invitation is also attached. Please do participate with your
Family members and get blessed..Radhe Krishna!!!
 
Quotes 1751 to 1760



#1751a. விரும்பி ஏற்கும் துன்பமே அறியாமை.

#1751b. Ignorance is voluntary misfortune.




#1752a. அனைவருமே அமரராக ஆசைப்படுகின்றனர்.

#1752b. All men desire to be immortal.



#1753a. இறப்புக்கு பின்னர் வாழாதவன் இருக்கும் போதும் வாழவில்லை.

#1753b. He has not lived that lives no after his death.



#1754a. தன்னந் தனியாக நிற்பவனே தன்னிகரில்லாத பலசாலி.

#1754b. The strongest man in the world is he who stands most alone.



#1755a. அலையும் நாய் அடையும் எலும்பை.

#1755b. The dog that trots about finds a bone.



#1756a. செயலில் வாய்மையே தீர்ப்பு.

#1756b. Justice is truth in action



#1757a. எல்லோரும் நல்லவர்கள் ஆனால் வீரர்கள் தேவையில்லை.

#1757b. If all men were just there won’t be any need for valor.



#1758a. இளமையில் அறிவு; முதுமையில் ஞானம்.

#1758b. Knowledge in youth is wisdom in old age.



#1759a. அதிகம் அறிந்தால் பெருகும் அறிவு தாகம்.

#1759b. The more you know the more you want to know.



#1760a. படிக்கப் படிக்கப் பிடிக்கும் படிப்பதற்கு.

#1760b. The more you learn, the more you want to learn.
 
#15266.

dear friend, :welcome:
This is a busy world. I just saw your post when I was about to log off.
Can you kindly make your post shorter and to the point and statethe purpose of the post and the requirements for that purpose.
Thank you. :)
Looking forward to your post edited and shortened. :typing:
 


Dear Renu,

Those days these things were not taught
either in science or elsewhere! :loco:


Dear VR ji,


But its almost impossible for a person to eventually not realize this as he/she grows..even if its not taught anywhere.

There is something called basic instinct..cavemen did not have books..no one taught them anything..yet we are all here today cos our cavemen ancestors just knew by instinct that what should be done.

I always believe that we should listen to our body and mind..both body and mind are our actual Guru.
 
Dear VR ji,


But its almost impossible for a person to eventually not realize this as he/she grows..even if its not taught anywhere.

There is something called basic instinct..cavemen did not have books..no one taught them anything..yet we are all here today cos our cavemen ancestors just knew by instinct that what should be done.

I always believe that we should listen to our body and mind..both body and mind are our actual Guru.

Dear Renu,
Basic instincts need certain favorable environments.
Boys and girls being thrown together, the interest, the opportunity, the privacy.
All these happen once the wedded couple are "locked up in a room" for nuptial. There after their basic instincts take ove and presto they master the art soon.
 
Princes have plenty of beatiuful women around them all the time. The interest, the oppotunity and the privacy are all there.
They start exploring sooner than the others and with many partners and the net result... They have to get children by performing yaagaa, yagna, penance, pooja,daanam and never by the natural method! :rolleyes:
 
1.அறம் செய விரும்பு

  • நீ தருமத்தை(கடமையை)ச் செய்ய ஆவல் கொள்.
2. ஆறுவது சினம்

  • கோபம் தணிக்கப்பட வேண்டியதாகும்.
3. இயல்வது கரவேல்

  • உன்னால் கொடுக்கக்கூடிய பொருளை யாசிப்பவர்க்கு ஒளிக்காது கொடு.
4. ஈவது விலக்கேல்

  • ஒருவர், மற்றவர்க்கு கொடுப்பதை, வேண்டாமென்று தடுக்காதே
5.உடையது விளம்பேல்

  • உன்னிடத்திலுள்ள பொருளை அல்லது இரகசியங்களை பிறர் அறியுமாறு சொல்லாதே.
6. ஊக்கமது கைவிடேல்

  • எப்போதும் முயற்சியைக் கைவிடக்கூடாது.
7. எண் எழுத்து இகழேல்

  • எண்ணும் எழுத்தும் மக்களுக்கு இன்றியமையாதன; ஆகவே, அவற்றை வீணென்று இகழ்ந்து கற்காமல் விட்டு விடாதே.
8. ஏற்பது இகழ்ச்சி

  • இரந்து வாழ்வது இழிவானது. அதனால் யாசிக்கக் கூடாது.
9. ஐயம் இட்டு உண்

  • யாசிப்பவர்கட்கு கொடுத்து பிறகு உண்ண வேண்டும்.
10. ஒப்புரவு ஒழுகு

  • உலக நடையை அறிந்துகொண்டு, அத்தோடு பொருந்துமாறு நடந்துகொள்.
11. ஓதுவது ஒழியேல்

  • நல்ல நூல்களை எப்பொழுதும் படித்துக்கொண்டிரு.
12. ஔவியம் பேசேல்

  • ஒருவரிடமும் பொறாமை கொண்டு பேசாதே.
13.அஃகஞ் சுருக்கேல்

  • அதிக இலாபத்துக்காக, தானியங்களை குறைத்து அளந்து விற்காதே.
 
It is fascinating how the dheerga dharisini Avvaiyaar had formulated these rules in the alpahbetical order (making it easier to remember all of them) as well as in short powerful sentences.

We have to teach the good things and the right things to the young minds before they get corrupted.

So catch them young and teach them young.

All of us are having/ doing some or many of these forbidden things.

But the most obvious short comings are the rule 3 and 4.
We do not give what we can easily give. :popcorn:

We also STOP others from giving what they want to give. :hand:
 

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