renuka
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They do not know the fact that they are annoying....That means there is something they do not know!LOL
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Think or sink!
- Thread starter Visalakshi Ramani
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They do not know the fact that they are annoying....That means there is something they do not know!LOL
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Dear Renu,
People think that they know everything.
They do not even know that
they do not know everything.
People think that they know everything.
They do not even know that
they do not know everything.
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என் அன்னை!
வெண்ணிலா ஒளி வீசும் வட்ட முகம் இன்று
வெண்மையில் மல்லிகையாக மாறியது ஏன்?
அன்று குனித்து நெற்றியில் முத்தமிட்டபோது
அன்னை உடல் சிலிர்த்து இருகண் விழித்தாள்.
இன்று குனித்து நெற்றியில் முத்தமிட்ட போது
அன்னை உடல் சிலிர்த்து இருகண் திறவாதது ஏன்?
வலியும் வேதனைகளும் மறைந்த பின் முகம்
விகசிக்கும் வெள்ளைத் தாமரையானது ஏன்?
காலம் என் அன்னையை வென்றுவிட்டதா அன்றிக்
காலத்தை என் அன்னை வென்று விட்டாளா?
வெண்ணிலா ஒளி வீசும் வட்ட முகம் இன்று
வெண்மையில் மல்லிகையாக மாறியது ஏன்?
அன்று குனித்து நெற்றியில் முத்தமிட்டபோது
அன்னை உடல் சிலிர்த்து இருகண் விழித்தாள்.
இன்று குனித்து நெற்றியில் முத்தமிட்ட போது
அன்னை உடல் சிலிர்த்து இருகண் திறவாதது ஏன்?
வலியும் வேதனைகளும் மறைந்த பின் முகம்
விகசிக்கும் வெள்ளைத் தாமரையானது ஏன்?
காலம் என் அன்னையை வென்றுவிட்டதா அன்றிக்
காலத்தை என் அன்னை வென்று விட்டாளா?
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கருணையில் அவள் ஒரு காமாக்ஷி
பெருமையில் அவள் ஒரு மீனாக்ஷி
வீரத்தில் அவள் ஒரு துர்க்கா தேவி
விரும்தோம்பலில் அவள் அன்னபூரணி.
அனைத்துத் தேவியரும் பொருந்தியுள்ள
அன்னை கிடைப்பது எவ்வளவு அரிது!!!
பெருமையில் அவள் ஒரு மீனாக்ஷி
வீரத்தில் அவள் ஒரு துர்க்கா தேவி
விரும்தோம்பலில் அவள் அன்னபூரணி.
அனைத்துத் தேவியரும் பொருந்தியுள்ள
அன்னை கிடைப்பது எவ்வளவு அரிது!!!
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ஒரு முறை கண்டவர்கள் நினவு கூர்வர்
வருடங்கள் எத்தனை உருண்ட போதிலும்.
கண் கண்டதைக் கைகள் செய்யும்;
பண்பட்ட மனம் உண்மையே பேசும்.
கள்ளங்கபடு இல்லாத வெள்ளை உள்ளமும்
அள்ளித் தரும் வள்ளல் குணமும் வேறு எவரிடம்?
வருடங்கள் எத்தனை உருண்ட போதிலும்.
கண் கண்டதைக் கைகள் செய்யும்;
பண்பட்ட மனம் உண்மையே பேசும்.
கள்ளங்கபடு இல்லாத வெள்ளை உள்ளமும்
அள்ளித் தரும் வள்ளல் குணமும் வேறு எவரிடம்?
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மச்சினர்களை முன்னேற்றிய அவள் ஒரு ஏணி;
மகள்களைக் கரையேற்றிய அவள் ஒரு தோணி;
மொழிகளில் கலைகளில் தேர்ந்த அவள் வாணி,
வாழட்டும் பிறந்து, செல்வச் சீமான் வீட்டில் ராணி.
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மகள்களைக் கரையேற்றிய அவள் ஒரு தோணி;
மொழிகளில் கலைகளில் தேர்ந்த அவள் வாணி,
வாழட்டும் பிறந்து, செல்வச் சீமான் வீட்டில் ராணி.
ray:.
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It is rightly said that
"He who is a friend to everyone is a friend to none!"
Seventy one friends are there on the long list.
BUT Not even one P.M or post condoling the loss of my dear mother!
YAMA has proved everything here is MAYA!
Food for thought for the next few days/weeks!
"He who is a friend to everyone is a friend to none!"
Seventy one friends are there on the long list.
BUT Not even one P.M or post condoling the loss of my dear mother!
YAMA has proved everything here is MAYA!
Food for thought for the next few days/weeks!
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After the rituals and ceremonies are over on 28h inst,
I will attend to my eyes and get the cataract surgery done.
It will be several weeks before I will be allowed to work on the P.C.
I may not resume the threads Think or Sink and Think or Blink.
I am already doing these two jobs very well.
So I have decided that enough is enough!
The poems may be posted in the Literature section.
So also the Naaraayaneeyam and Thirumanthiram.
Even if they are not posted here they will be posted in my blogs.
Visalakshi Ramani - My Blog of Blogs
https://thirumanthiram1.wordpress.com/ ( yet to be added to the list of blogs)
I will attend to my eyes and get the cataract surgery done.
It will be several weeks before I will be allowed to work on the P.C.
I may not resume the threads Think or Sink and Think or Blink.
I am already doing these two jobs very well.
So I have decided that enough is enough!
The poems may be posted in the Literature section.
So also the Naaraayaneeyam and Thirumanthiram.
Even if they are not posted here they will be posted in my blogs.
Visalakshi Ramani - My Blog of Blogs
https://thirumanthiram1.wordpress.com/ ( yet to be added to the list of blogs)
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I will request Mr. praveen to promptly close the two threads mentioned above.
I know by past experience what happens to the house vacated by the one living in it.
Once bitten twice shy. Twice smitten ...??? :decision:
I know by past experience what happens to the house vacated by the one living in it.
Once bitten twice shy. Twice smitten ...??? :decision:
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Dear Mr. praveen,
I request yo to kindly close this thread with immediate effect.
Thank you very much sir!
I request yo to kindly close this thread with immediate effect.
Thank you very much sir!
renuka
Well-known member
It is rightly said that
"He who is a friend to everyone is a friend to none!"
Seventy one friends are there on the long list.
BUT Not even one P.M or post condoling the loss of my dear mother!
YAMA has proved everything here is MAYA!
Food for thought for the next few days/weeks!
Dear VR ji,
Please take a look at a Sai thread and also TVK ji wrote a kind mention about your mother.
Vgane Ji and I wrote in Sai thread for your mum.
I was planning waiting a bit longer before I would PM you cos I knew the rituals would take some time..so I wanted to let you have personal time with your family.
At present all thoughts should be focused on your mother..PM's can wait I feel.
I am sure most members too could have been lost for words..at times some of us do not know how to react during the grief period of others ..therefore some remain silent but that does not mean they do not really care for you.
Please do not get angry with members cos right now only calm feelings should arise from everyone including you so that grief period does not turn to anxiety.
Take care..
Regards and Lots of Love
Renu
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Dear Renu,
I am more sad than angry!
I have been deluded all the time! :der:
Which is worse ...illusion or delusion? :noidea:
A sahaabdam has become an Ithihaasam.
A noble soul has reached her divine abode and her mortal remains have returned to the pancha boothas.
I am sure my mother will continue to be my guiding star
(as she had always been) along with my dear dad in the future also.
I am more sad than angry!
I have been deluded all the time! :der:
Which is worse ...illusion or delusion? :noidea:
A sahaabdam has become an Ithihaasam.
A noble soul has reached her divine abode and her mortal remains have returned to the pancha boothas.
I am sure my mother will continue to be my guiding star
(as she had always been) along with my dear dad in the future also.
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#1950a. வாழ்வில் மூன்று விதக் கற்பனைகள்.
1. என்னை நேசிக்கிறார்கள்.
2. என்னை எனக்காகவே நேசிக்கிறார்கள்.
3. என்னையும் மீறி என்னை நேசிக்கிறார்கள்.
#1950b. The three degrees of conviction in life.
1. We are loved. (positive degree)
2. We are loved for ourselves. (comparative degree)
3. We are loved in spite of ourselves. (superlative degree)
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I do not know WHY this thread was not closed as requested by me.
BUT I am happy I still have a corner to babble and prattle! :baby:
Otherwise world will become too oppressive. :ballchain:
BUT I am happy I still have a corner to babble and prattle! :baby:
Otherwise world will become too oppressive. :ballchain:
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I thank all the members who had prayed for ray2:
my dear mother - in their usual silent way!ray:
ray2:my dear mother - in their usual silent way!
ray:Some like me do not know how to express grief.
I thank all the members who had prayed for
my dear mother - in their usual silent way!
renuka
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Dear Sarang ji,
This is very understandable...grief is one situation where many people have different ways of expressing it.
Females tend to display their feelings more openly but males might choose to remain silent or totally unable to emote.
Even when I was working in the hospitals before..male doctors used to have a real problem telling patients that their loved ones had died..many male doctors would ask us females docs to help them out in telling patients bad news.
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Dear Mr. Sarang,
Men are not supposed to cry. Yet I saw my father crying when my grandfather passed away in 1969. I heard my brother crying on the phone when my mother passed away.
May be men can cry for very close relatives but not for people whom one has not seen. I also now that many women use this kind of opportunities to let out their own pent up feelings!
Well! I realized later that it is the thought that counts more than mere words.
Words without thoughts won't reach even the God and Heaven.
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Dear Renu,
A woman can communicate more easily with men and a man with women. I have seen this several times. People listen better, understand better and trust more easily when a member of the opposite gender talks serious matters.
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An interesting article on a related topic.
114. Why Sensitive?
It is the wide spread belief that women are more emotional than men. They are also more emotionally expressive than men. They have more intense emotions, more fears, more sadness and more guilty feelings than men.
Are these due the differences in the physical and mental make up of the men and women?
The differences are due to many reasons.
Women appear to recall an emotion in greater detail than men. Women ruminate about an experience, thus creating and developing more emotional attachments to it. This helps them to recall the experience with greater accuracy.
For women, the experience of an emotion and the expression of the emotion, become one and the same. They have better vocabulary and better ways of expressing their feelings.
Women have more expressive faces and eyes than men. Women benefit more by a greater degree of emotionality.
Women have a higher necessity and motivation for intimacy. They have greater vigilance over their personal relationships. They try to set right their strained relationships. When the relationship becomes hopeless, the women are the first ones to get out of it, unscathed.
Women are supposed to be the weaker sex since they are physically weak. They need some one stronger to defend them and take care of them. They can achieve this, only by developing and maintaining healthy and satisfactory relationships.
This is made possible by their more sensitive disposition, to their own emotions as well those of the people around them.
Visalakshi Ramani
https://visalakshiramani.wordpress.com/articles/miraculous-mind/are-women-more-emotional-than-men/
114. Why Sensitive?
It is the wide spread belief that women are more emotional than men. They are also more emotionally expressive than men. They have more intense emotions, more fears, more sadness and more guilty feelings than men.
Are these due the differences in the physical and mental make up of the men and women?
The differences are due to many reasons.
Women appear to recall an emotion in greater detail than men. Women ruminate about an experience, thus creating and developing more emotional attachments to it. This helps them to recall the experience with greater accuracy.
For women, the experience of an emotion and the expression of the emotion, become one and the same. They have better vocabulary and better ways of expressing their feelings.
Women have more expressive faces and eyes than men. Women benefit more by a greater degree of emotionality.
Women have a higher necessity and motivation for intimacy. They have greater vigilance over their personal relationships. They try to set right their strained relationships. When the relationship becomes hopeless, the women are the first ones to get out of it, unscathed.
Women are supposed to be the weaker sex since they are physically weak. They need some one stronger to defend them and take care of them. They can achieve this, only by developing and maintaining healthy and satisfactory relationships.
This is made possible by their more sensitive disposition, to their own emotions as well those of the people around them.
Visalakshi Ramani
https://visalakshiramani.wordpress.com/articles/miraculous-mind/are-women-more-emotional-than-men/
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விடுகதை :decision: விடுகாதை
உலகு ஈர்த்த மொழி,
மிளகு ஒத்த நெடி;
செலவு நீக்கும் இனி,
இலவு காக்கும் கிளி.
உலகு ஈர்த்த மொழி,
மிளகு ஒத்த நெடி;
செலவு நீக்கும் இனி,
இலவு காக்கும் கிளி.
renuka
Well-known member
I have never watched the movie Chakde India starring Shah Rukh Khan cos I know its one of those sans glamour movies which was more art like..only yesterday I was bored at home and decided to see in on Zee TV.
SRK was simply fantastic..even sans glamour he looks strikingly handsome with superb acting..what a star! No wonder he is King Khan!
SRK was simply fantastic..even sans glamour he looks strikingly handsome with superb acting..what a star! No wonder he is King Khan!
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Dear Renu,
He must be The King Khan. :thumb:
If he were The King Kong ...he won't be
either handsome or draw crowds and fans!
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The question still remains unanswered!
Be yourself??? (the most natural thing to do) OR
TRY to Please the others???( an impossible task!)
Be yourself??? (the most natural thing to do) OR
TRY to Please the others???( an impossible task!)
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