Think or sink!

[Visalakshi Ramani]

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A male should not use it too much cos some females actually find that sexy!LOL

They should only use the wife card when they want to escape from an obsessive female.

Otherwise they should also let other females drool and then play the wife card if the situation gets too drooly!LOL

The situation will become what can be called as "Swim or Sink!

 

[krish44]

Dear VR ji,

If the future tense is used..the Kal means tomorrow.

If past tense is used..the Kal means yesterday.

Strange but true!

Sanskrit is better organized that way.

if only kal is used with no tense, it might mean stone.

probably someone is talking in tamil

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

A little harmless flirting is necessary when one's own spouse starts losing interest in him/her.
It will ignite a little jealousy and make the bored spouse wake up to the reality that
the other members of his/ her group still find the spouse very interesting and engaging!
Women would instinctively know their "This far and no further" limit!

 

[renuka]

if only kal is used with no tense, it might mean stone.

probably someone is talking in tamil

Well... Kal without a tense in Tamil could mean Stone or Alcohol!

So we need some grammar to know which Kal we are talking about!LOL

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

if only kal is used with no tense, it might mean stone.

probably someone is talking in tamil

That may be the reason why most people keep saying

'kal parso' to remove all doubts about :brick:!

 

[renuka]

A little harmless flirting is necessary when one's own spouse starts losing interest in him/her.
It will ignite a little jealousy and make the bored spouse wake up to the reality that
the other members of his/ her group still find the spouse very interesting and engaging!
Women would instinctively know their "This far and no further" limit!

Dear VR ji,


Why ignite jealousy?

That is very un Sattva.

That is why the Sattva Harem concept is advocated.

It totally does not support any form of Kama,Krodha,Moha,Mada,Lobha and Matsarya.

 

[krish44]

Overcrowding can be handled easily.

One's intentions too should be Sattva that is do not have 2 admirers of the same kind..only one of each type..so that the boat does not get overfilled.

Moderation is the key.

Next..one has to use Viveka and do not get attached to any member.

Practice detachment...so that one can drop a member anytime when you no longer need his services.

For example if one harem member was holding a post in some organization that we would also benefit from..and once his term as president or chairman of that organization is over..he can be dropped becos he would be no use to us anymore.

Moderation,viveka and practise of detachment-all of them together are making my head swim in circles and this calls for a

quick trip to the the nearest watering hole for the day, luckily bangalore is an open city. And I have promises to keep.

 

[krish44]

A little harmless flirting is necessary when one's own spouse starts losing interest in him/her.
It will ignite a little jealousy and make the bored spouse wake up to the reality that
the other members of his/ her group still find the spouse very interesting and engaging!
Women would instinctively know their "This far and no further" limit!

if wives try to flirt with others in their presence, husbands only turn protective -they do not like wives make asses of

themselves. men never get jealous of wife. they get jealous of other men having attractive wife

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Moderation,viveka and practise of detachment-all of them together are making my head swim in circles and this calls for a

quick trip to the the nearest watering hole for the day, luckily bangalore is an open city. And I have promises to keep.

...AND MILES TO GO BEFORE YOU CAN REACH THE WATERING HOLE! :spit:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

if wives try to flirt with others in their presence, husbands only turn protective -they do not like wives make asses of

themselves. men never get jealous of wife. they get jealous of other men having attractive wife

Man hates the other men who find his unattractive wife very attractive!

Two men were discussing about and drooling over a voluptuous movie star.

One of them asked the other, "What will you left with if you take away her boobs and lips?'

The other man replied in a drab matter of fact voice, "My wife!"

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Dear VR ji,


Why ignite jealousy?

That is very un Sattva.

That is why the Sattva Harem concept is advocated.

It totally does not support any form of Kama,Krodha,Moha,Mada,Lobha and Matsarya.

Dear Renu,
To be honest, wedding life itself is a himsa - irrespective of
whether it falls under the Satva, Rajas or Tamas category!!

 

[Raji Ram]

Well... Kal without a tense in Tamil could mean Stone or Alcohol!.....

ayyyyoooooo, Renu! One is 'kal' and the other is 'kaL'!

Tamil has 'la', 'La', which should be used correctly. Otherwise 'school' (paLLi) will become 'lizard' (palli).

P.S: I am glad that you did NOT quote the Tamil saying relating 'kal' and 'kaNavan'!! :lol:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

People with knowledge of spiritual phrases can perform on of these double damakas... :decision:

Clarify a person's doubts or kiLarufy and confuse him more than what he was originally! :dizzy:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

ayyyyoooooo, Renu! One is 'kal' and the other is 'kaL'!

Tamil has 'la', 'La', which should be used correctly. Otherwise 'school' (paLLi) will become 'lizard' (palli).

P.S: I am glad that you did NOT quote the Tamil saying relating 'kal' and 'kaNavan'!! :lol:

In celebration of husbands

who are always on high spirits ...

and are also high on spirits...

கள் ஆனாலும் கணவன்!

ஃ புல் ஆனாலும் புருஷன்!

 

[krish44]

In celebration of husbands

who are always on high spirits ...

and are also high on spirits...

கள் ஆனாலும் கணவன்!

ஃ புல் ஆனாலும் புருஷன்!

second line should read 'fool analum purushan''. correcton.

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

second line should read 'fool analum purushan''. correcton.

Dear Mr. krish,
When the tank is full with volatile spirits,
a man will behave like fool anyway!
So there is no need to state it explicitly!

 

[renuka]

P.S: I am glad that you did NOT quote the Tamil saying relating 'kal' and 'kaNavan'!! :lol:

So you still remember my interpretation?LOL

But it makes perfect sense doesn't it?

 

[Raji Ram]

So you still remember my interpretation?........

How can we forget what our forum 'MAtAji' says!

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

Today is New Moon day.
Priests and pundits would be busy with tarpan etc.

So the pooja was shifted from 6 A.M. to 5 AM. so that
the priest can start his other duties after finishing the morning pooja.

Guess what!

The 'kartaa' who wanted to clebrate his grandson's 'Aandu niRaivu' did not turn up.
Nor did his sahirdaamani or daughter or Son in law or the birthday baby.

'Ennaikkum vara *devigal mattum vanthom.
Ennaikkum varaatha * devigal varavE illai."

Is there any use in performing pooja in absentia while living just 30 feet from the temple? :decision:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

It was helpful to finish the pooja one hour earlier.

I got time to vacuum clean the house, wash the mosquito nets , dust the whole house, change the sheets and pillow covers etc in addition to the daily chores and kitchen duties.

My biological clock already registers 4 P.M. calculating by the amount of work done already and my energy level right now! :dizzy:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

ONLY when I stop singing I do realize how much energy I am wasting in raising the whole group to sing at my pitch.

So today I let them sing at their own pitch, own tune and own pace.
(Once my namesake asked me seriously, "Why do we have to maintain thaalam while singing")

The technical way of saying it is to let them sing in Varaagam set to Vethaalam.

Today I sang only the robust Hanuman chaalis and my granfather's kruti
Sree Mhaa Hanumathe sadaaa namasthe.

So hence forth ONLY individual singing.
I need not lift the whole group through my voice on to my slender legs! Right???

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

When the two persons wishing for Mudal mariyaathai and parivattam
and trying to control everyone else in their spiritual activities
fall out and separate due to some reason
peace and quiet prevails everywhere including the temple premises.
The hundi was opened recently and the money counted.
As the saying goes "KaNakkuk kettaal piNakku varum!"
So PiNakku turned out to be for the better than for the worse!
Bad people need not always be destroyed by Good people.
Sometimes they destroy themselves too! :fencing:

 

[Visalakshi Ramani]

The pooja in our temple is high tech in Nature.
Some people who have left the colony and moved to other cities also perform the maargazhi maasa pooja. So the priest would take sankalpam over the phone and also recite the mantra pushapam and broadcast the harathi and laali song to the remote kartaa.
I won't be surprised if soon he starts giving a live relay of the pooja using the I phone!
He can really afford to do it since his fees are what is popularly known as Spencer Rates! :thumb:

 

[Raji Ram]

Sing. Chennai sAsthigaLs are also very smart! They start Varalakshmi pooja in person in one house and start in three or more
houses thro' phone! The mAmis have to wait till he goes in person and finish the rest of the pooja! :couch2:

 

[Raji Ram]

Our niece's hubby is very well versed in matrAs. He will connect all his relatives in the U S of A thro' skype

and perform AvaNi avittam. He lives in Detroit.