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Think or sink!

This talaq in installments, I have posted elsewhere that there is danger that women at the receiving end get time to fix the male with dowry harassment case after first or

second talaq call. So triple talaq in one go is safer for muslim male
 
renuka said:
Dear VR ji,

American handwriting

I have seen my USA classmates in India have same handwriting.

Americans tend to write big and very cursive.

Indian handwriting is very hard to read especially if person from South...its very curly in nature resembling the letters of South Indian languages.
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Dear Renu,

You are right!

The alphabets of all the South Indian languages

are different types of complicated Jelebis! :rolleyes:
 
renuka said:
No...one does not need to be a Muslim.

Many Non Muslims too undergo circumcision for medical and hygiene reasons.

Here its no big deal...many Non Muslims too opt for it but in India I see its a big deal for a Non Muslim to have a circumcision.
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May be it is because we confuse the :confused:

medical requirements with the religious requirements!

One young boy known to us undergo circumcision due to some medical complication.

His grandmother used to refer to that incident in the crudest possible language - as long as she lived (which was until the boy became
nearly 40 years old!)!
 
krish44 said:
During partition of india,when hindus and muslims were targetted in pakistan and india, circumcision was the basis to decide if a male was a muslim or hindu.

Life of a person depended on it.lol
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I know since some cruel old jokes were about the

religion of the person being present in his private parts! :(

Men would throw off the poonool, cast away their sikha (kudumi) and get

the circumcision done... anything to stay alive, kicking and ticking !
 
renuka said:
Talaaq is not always triple.

There are 3 types of Talaaq:


1)Where a husband says(Lafaz) the word Talaq once..Talaaq.

2)Where its Lafaz twice...Talaaq,Talaaq,

3)Where its Lafaz thrice ..Talaaq,Talaaq,Talaaq.


Ok in the 1st two types he can re-marry her once the period of Iddah (waiting period) is over.


But in case of Triple Talaaq if he wants to re-marry her ..she has to get married to another male..then let that male divorce her after consummating the marriage and only then he can re-marry her.
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WHY divorce her at all - if he has plans of remarrying her??? :dizzy:

If they want a temporary separation he can just send her

to her mother's house for a vacation. She will oblige very happily!

Why the holy mixing of people in consummating temporary marriages!
 
krish44 said:
I also have it.
I type the whole line.
Then I reuse space bar second time to put space.

I thought it had something to do with my PC.
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Itooamdoingverymuchthesamesincethetypedlettersseemtoappearatrandomplaces!

(before posting) :rolleyes:

I too am doing very much the same since the typed letters seem to appear at random places! :)

(after posting) :)
 
If a man has remarriage with the same woman in his agenda,

he has better refrain from the talaq in instalments of in full.

What if her new husband likes her so much that he refuses to divorce her??? :)
 
The Unwritten Rules.

What is offered voluntarily is THE cheapest;
The outcome of hard labour is THE crispest.

The unforeseen crisis in a life is the deepest,
To achieve an ambition, the climb is steepest.

Words spoken with love, are fruits sweetest,
Words of hatred, prove to be the harshest.

To those who FEEL, life is a violent tempest.
To those who THINK, life is no more than a pest.

​
 
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'Kurangup pidi' is the same in every language since'

monkeys are very much similar in every country.

So Gorila glue is supposed to be able to fix

to seal anything with anything else! :rolleyes:

I am NOT sure whether it can fix a broken heart though! :)
 
குரங்குப்பிடி, தர்மஅடி



ஆசைதான் எல்லாத் துன்பத்திற்கும் காரணம்,
ஆர்தான் மறுக்க முடியும் இந்த உண்மையை?
பாசம் என்றால் கயிறு, நம்மை பலவாறு
பந்தப் படுத்தும் பார்க்க முடியாத கயிறு!

எது எதையெல்லாம் விட்டு விடுகிறோமோ,
அது அதனால் நமக்குத் துன்பம் இல்லை!
“யாதனின் யாதனின் நீங்கியான், நோதல்
அதனின் அதனின் இலன்” அல்லவா?

காலைப் பற்றி தொங்கும்போதே நம்மை
காலால் எற்றும் உரிமையை அளிக்கிறோம்.
வைக்கும் இடத்தில வைக்கப்பட்டால் தான்,
கைப்பாவையாய் நம்மை ஆட்டிப் படையார்.

குறுகிய வாயுடைய ஒரு சிறிய ஜாடி,
பொரி கடலையால் நிரம்பி மணக்கும்;
மறு எண்ணம் இல்லாமல் கையை விட்டு
நிரம்ப அள்ளும் அறியாக் குரங்கு!

கையும் மாட்டிக்கொண்டது ஜாடியில்,
மெய்யும் மாட்டிக்கொண்டது மனிதனிடம்!
கையை விட்டால் தான் விடுதலை.
கையை விட்டால் இல்லை கடலை!

கடலையா அல்லது விடுதலையா? என்று
உடனடி முடிவு எடுக்க வேண்டும் குரங்கு.
ஒன்று கிடைக்காமலே போகலாம்,
இரண்டுமே கிடைக்காமலும் போகலாம்!

மரத்திடம் சென்று வலியப் பற்றிக் கொண்டு ,
மரம் எனை விடுவதில்லை என்பது போல;
உலகை நாமே வலியப் பற்றிக்கொண்டு,
உலகம் நம்மை விடவில்லை என்போம்!

யாருக்காகவும் எதுவுமே நிற்காது,
உருண்டு ஓடும் உலகம் முன்னோக்கி!
தான் இல்லாத உலகம் நின்றுவிடும் என்று,
தன்னைத் தானே ஏய்த்துக் கொள்வானேன்?

“பந்தமா முக்தியா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“பாசமா பக்தியா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“குறையா நிறையா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“சிறையா விடுதலையா”? முடிவு நமதே.

“இன்பமா துன்பமா”? முடிவு நமதே.
“இவ்வுலகமா வீடு பேறா”? முடிவு நமதே.
இத்தனை முடிவுகளும் நம்மிடம் இருக்க,
பித்தரைப் போல துயர் அடைவதேன்?

வாழ்க வளமுடன், விசாலாக்ஷி ரமணி.

https://visalramani.wordpress.com/about/உலகமும்-நாமும்/54-குரங்குப்-பிடியும்-தர்ம/
 
mky.jpg



THE MONKEY AND THE PEANUTS.

Desire is the root cause of all evils! Nobody can challenge or deny this statement. Affection is rightly called as ‘paasam’. It is the invisible rope that binds a person to everyone and everything he loves.

Whatever we willingly give up, cannot cause us sorrow or misery any more. When we clutch the feet of a person, we automatically bestow on him / her the right to kick us. Nothing should be given more importance than it really deserves.

A narrow mouthed jar was filled with finely roasted peanuts – spreading an inviting aroma all around the jar. A monkey put its hand through the narrow mouth of the jar and grabbed a handful of nuts.

It could take out its hand only if it lets go of all the peanuts – which it did not want to. The man who had set out the nuts was sure to catch hold of the monkey and punish it. It may lose either the peanut or its freedom but probably both of them!

A rich old man complained that he wanted to leave all his attachments to the world – but the world did not allow him to do so!

This is just like a man hugging a tree and stating that the tree does not let him go! We are all doing the same thing and giving the same explanation!

It is time to realize that NO ONE is really indispensable! The world will keep moving all the same – in spite of everything and everyone. It is our imagination that we make the world go round and but for us, it will come to a grinding halt!

We have complete freedom to choose any one of the two in each of these pairs! Attachment or liberation, shackles or freedom, the world or the God, dissatisfaction of our mind or satisfaction of our mind, samsaaraa or mukthi, sorrow or peace of mind.

All the choices are in our hands, yet we choose to suffer like ignorant fools!

https://visalramani.wordpress.com/about/உலகமும்-நாமும்/54-குரங்குப்-பிடியும்-தர்ம/
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:
1. WHY divorce her at all - if he has plans of remarrying her???

If they want a temporary separation he can just send her to her mother's house for a vacation.
She will oblige very happily!

2. Why the holy mixing of people in consummating temporary marriages!
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1. The next wife or wives might prove that she is THE best!! :first:

2. This enables the lady to stick to a better husband since he need not divorce her! :hug:
 
Women normally put up with domestic violence. There were about 1.2 lakh cases of violence reported every year. Reasons -denial of sex,could not make kids from

stopping crying,preparing food not likeable.In such cases women continue in marriage after husband makes up by apologising. Molesting is a whopping 80000 plus and

rapes about 7000 per year. Convictions are meagre.Women do not know about domestic violence act and rarely go to police fot domestic violence. In case they do , the

court take months to take cognisance and act.Most women continue in violent marriages as they are not prepared or unfit for employment. Even if they work ,their

salary is small to bring up kids often more than one.This news is courtesy 'the mint ' of 3nov 2016
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:


WHY divorce her at all - if he has plans of remarrying her??? :dizzy:

If they want a temporary separation he can just send her

to her mother's house for a vacation. She will oblige very happily!

Why the holy mixing of people in consummating temporary marriages!
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Anger..sometimes in anger we all say stuff we do not mean.

So the Talaaq sytem makes it hard for remarriage so that couple learn to control their temper in trivial fights.
 
Dear VR ji,

When doing Yoga most Yoga videos use soft Indian music at the background but I find it sleep inducing especially if I am doing my yoga at 5am and want to feel energized.

So now I use this song when I do my Yoga..really makes the workout energizing and makes me alert right away at 5 am...hearing a Har Har Mahadev war cry in the morning is such a boost!

But only one drawback...one has to resist the urge to dance.

The 1st two days I started dancing midway!LOL

Song is just too good!


[video=youtube_share;YUH9jD__qHY]https://youtu.be/YUH9jD__qHY[/video]
 
Buri nazae lag gayaa meri laadlee bhahoo ko! :(

My dear daughter (in law ) got affected by the evil eyes!

She is down with temperature and whole house is steeped in confusion

since she is the axis around whom the whole household revolves.

I hope and pray she will get well and become strong soon

and restore the house to normalcy from the prevailing lunacy! ! :pray:
 
Recently a family function took place in India.

A usual I was the only one who missed it - this time with valid reasons.

However we in USA could get glimpses of the ceremony.

Thanks to Skype. I could have watched the whole ceremony.

But it had only limited traffic and I had to satisfy myself with the glimpses

of all my dear ones who were assembled in one place.
 

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