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Think or sink!

Dear VR ji..answers in blue

When the firm, clean ground is a good enough bed, why do we go for cots and super comfort beds? When our arms can serve well as warm pillows , why do we go for sponge pillows?

Dear VR Ji..sleeping on the floor is not as comfortable unless we are very young.Also one should not use their arms as pillows...this is a main reason for nerve compression in the upper limb and can even lead to paralysis of the arm.



When a small clean house is enough to live in, why do we build sprawling houses?

Size of house depends on our needs....a house should not be too small or too big.


When the public transports are good enough for our travel, why do we need A.C cars?

Becos public transport is not always comfortable and in case of emergencies there is nothing like having a car. Just imagine..I take 1 big bag with money change to work..my lap top and my lunch bag where I have cooked both lunch ad dinner for myself..how to carry so many things and hop on a bus? This is where a car comes in handy.
 
Madam, I have attached the picture for you this time. Hope you will be able to see it now. Thank you once again!
Dear Ms. Lalit,
If there is any color I like more than purple it is violet! :love:

People associate me with that color more than I do.

So every time any body preset me a sari it would be a violet sari. :)

How many violet saris do I have? :noidea:

I have really lost count.

I enlarged the image and enjoyed viewing it.

It has calmed my mind and eased my soaring B.P ...

thanks to the tumultuous week I had since last Friday

with all my in laws descending on us and the tricky

deal which kept every one of us on the verge of

Patience, Logic, Tolerance and everything sane and good.

I never doubted about the growing intolerance.

Now it is confirmed beyond any doubts!

May God bless all of us! :amen:
 
Dear Renu,
You are right. :thumb:
Personal needs vary from person to person depending upon
their profession and value of time they can spare/waste.
But the general concepts conveyed are
1. Minimizing one's needs and
2. Knowing the difference between Need and Greed.
Real needs are really justified but greed is not!


 
My maid is also quite a philosopher. (Is my presence philosophically infectious?)

Today morning after looking at me looking like something the cat had brought in during the night,

she became very anxious and wanted to know what was wrong.

Usually I would have finished my bath and be dressed smartly by the time she comes for work.

I told her about my soaring B.P. and he said in a bored and sad voice,

"Everyday is the same for us women - whether we are well or ill.

Cook food, wash the vessels, take bath, wash the clothes, sweep the floor and mop it."

I told her,"We hardly know how comfortable our life is unless something like the flood in Chennai

happens throwing our life completely out of gear, destroying all our earthly possessions.

Death is a great leveler no doubt. But so are floods, fires, earthquakes and volcanoes.

We are mere puppets in the hands of Mother Nature / Prakriti/ Maayaa shakti the invincible and

She reminds us of her infinite power now and then- whenever we seem to forget Her.
 
May Anything Which Has Been Standing In Your Way Be Healed & Lifted Away Today!

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It was such a lovely sight to watch the little great singers (Juju and Varun)

sing Jingle Bell in unison and dance to it tune , hopping and jumping

and running round in circles to the merry tune!

When Christmas is near can Christmas Carols be far behind? :)
 
Dear Ms. Lalit,
I bet God will have to do a lot of lifting and shifting to fulfill your wish! :)
But let it not worry you dear!
I find speed breakers very interesting since they
increase my speed in stead of decreasing it!
Remember the stuntman who leaps across in the circus from
one wooden ramp to another kept far away? :thumb:
 
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A business tycoon from USA came down to India and to Kerala - The God's own country. He saw a

half-clad man with beedi between his teeth basking in the sun on the pretext of catching fish.

:fish2:

The business tycoon got very upset seeing the way this fool was wasting his precious life time. :mmph:

So he gave the poor blighter a lamba-chowda-lecture on the value of time and of hard work and the

need to amass money while still young." :blah:

The beedi walah listened to all these with great patience and put forward a question to the tycoon.

"What am I supposed to do with all that money amassed by me by working hard during all my

waking hours?"

The tycoon replied in a matter of fact tone, "With that kind of money You can

take a vacation and relax fishing!'

The beedi walah said,"But I am already doing it now!" :rolleyes:
 
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A poem on the potential speed breakers actually contributing to faster growth! :)

[h=1]தாங்கும் கரங்கள்[/h]

முன்னேறுவதில் உண்டு இரு வகை;
முற்றிலும் அவை முரண்பட்டவை.

தட்டிக் கொடுப்பது அதில் ஒரு வகை;
தடுத்து நிறுத்துவது அதில் மறு வகை.

உரமிட்டால் நன்கு வளரும் பயிராய்
ஊக்கப் படுத்தினால் வளருவர் சிலர்.

வெட்டி விட்டால் வளரும் செடி போல
வேகத்தடை வைத்தால் வளருவர் சிலர்.

தானாக அனைத்தும் செய்ய இயலாதார்,
தாங்கும் கரங்களை நாடுவர் எப்போதும்.

தடைகளே வேகத்தை அதிகரிப்பதனால்
தடைகளை விரும்பி வரவேற்பர் சிலர்.

ஆடுகிற மாட்டை ஆடிக் கறக்கணும்;
பாடுகிற மாட்டைப் பாடிக் கறக்கணும்!

தடுத்தால் வளருபவராக இருந்தால்,
தாங்க வேண்டிய அவசியம் இல்லை.

தாங்கினால் வளருபவராக இருந்தால்
தயவு செய்து அவர்களைத் தடுக்காதீர்!

நமக்கு வேண்டியது வளர்ச்சிதானே?
நமக்கு இரு வழிகளும் நல்லவையே!
வாழ்க வளமுடன்,
விசாலாக்ஷி ரமணி.

 
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SUPPORT OR SUPPRESS?

People meet with two different kinds of treatments. Some are offered unconditional support while the others are suppressed or offered speed breakers in their paths.


Some people are like the plants that grow well with fertilizers.They grow well with the support of the family members. A few others are like the plants who show rapid and impressive growth when pruned regularly.


The person who is not self sufficient needs the support of the others around him. The water coming out of a pinched hose reaches farther with greater speed. In the same way some people reach greater heights when offered resistance.

There is a proverb:”Different strokes for different folks!”


If the person needs support we must not deny him support. If he grows well despite our support let him do so!


Both the methods are good, since our aim is increased growth ratio in either case.
 
Dear VR ji,

How is RR ji doing?

Any news from her?


dear Renu,
Mrs. R.R and Mr. Ram have temporarily shifted to his youngest brother's house in the next street. They are safe and sound. Mr. Ram's elder brother in a palatial house next door was watching the fun of the rain, foods and their miseries! :(
I now believe that relatives are just like the dry leaves floating on the water surface unattached to one another. Some times they move closer and other times they drift away - driven by Destiny!
 
Guess you use your writing as stress-buster! Wonderful technique!



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Dear Miss. Lalit,
We too need a safe gasket release system for the mounting pressure in us.
I make use of my many fold interests and activities to do that.
I may sit and stitch for 4 hours at a stretch as I did yesterday,
or sing for 90 minutes in full throat or just play veenaa.
Thank God I have many gasket release system depending on my mood.
It is the troubled oyster that produces the pearls.
It is the coal under pressure that transforms into a diamond.
My Yoga Guru used to tell us,
"Give so much troubles to your trouble that
it won't trouble you any more and just vanish ! "
 
உலக மகா அதிசயம்



ஒரு நாள் கேட்டேன் குருநாதரிடம்,
“உருளும் உலகின் அதிசயம் என்ன?”

“ஒரு கிளியைக் கூண்டில் அடைத்து,
ஒரு கதவைத் திறந்தால் என்ன ஆகும்?”

“உடனேயே பறந்து போய்விடும் கிளி,
உயர உயர, மீண்டும் பிடிபடாதபடி!”

“உலக மகா அதிசயம் இதுவே அறிவாய்;
உலகம் அனைத்துமே வியக்கும் அற்புதம்;

கூண்டில் சிறை உள்ளது உயிர்ப் பறவை;
கூண்டில் உள்ளன ஒன்பது வாசல்கள்;

மூடாத அவ்வாசல்கள் வழியே கிளி
ஓடாது இருப்பது ஏன் என்பதே அது”

அறிவீரா யாரேனும் இது என்ன மாயம்?
அறிந்தால் கூறும், அனைவருக்கும் லாபம்!

வாழ்க வளமுடன்,
விசாலாக்ஷி ரமணி.

THE GREATEST MYSTERY.

One day I asked my Sat guru, “What is the great mystery in the Universe?”

He asked me,”What will happen if you open the door of a cage in which a parrot has been kept a captive?”

I told him, “It will fly up and away – never to be caught by any man again!”

My guru replied, “Know this to be the greatest mystery in the Universe.
A jivan is arrested in the cage called a body. The cage has not just one but nine doors which are never locked up. Why then does the bird not escape from the cage and fly up and away?”

“Do any of you know the answer for this mystery?

If you do, please reveal it for the benefit of the entire humanity!”



 
How true are Adi Sakara's words,
"Maa kuru dhana jana youwana garvam
harati nimeshaath kaalah sarvam!"
On one day people own everything we need.
The very next day they have nothing but the clothes they are wearing.
Yet does man realize that nothing in this world is permanent
/ eternal/ ever existing/ ever dependable except his favorite GOD! :(
 
People offer food, shelter and clothes to perfect strangers
and yet there are blood relations who are not moved to pity
by the sad plight of their kin and kith.
Is blood really thicker than water? :doh:
 
Mother nature has proved that when it comes to causing colossal loss to the nation,
She is not lagging behind our all powerful politicians.

The estimated value of the loss of property caused by the recent Chennai floods
(Rs. 10,00,00,00,00,000) is at par with those caused by the multiple notorious scams. :(
 
Apparently people brilliant in one field need be so in the other fields.

Otherwise would Ulaga Naayagan Kamala Haasan ask this sterling question

about using the people's tax money for rectifying a loss of this magnitude.
 
What is more saddening than the loss of precious lives and property and crops in the recent floods?

It is the political parties trying to use it for their own personal political propaganda keeping in mind the fast approaching general election !:kev:


 
For three long years we were trying to dispose of an ancestral house.
The money was locked up in the land and the rickety leaking house.
Now the house has been sold.. but the money is to be seen nowhere!
The entire amount has to go into a bond for 3 years before we can use it.
How does it matter whether the money is locked up in the land or the bond
when it is of no use to these people who are on either side of 80 years!
 

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