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Sri Vamanan,

"Chidambaram Ramalingam, whom I consider to be a great Brahmin though he was not born in the Brahmin caste,"

Sir, I said something very similar in 'who is brahmanan?' thread. Sri. Nara came along and reset my ego in one single sentence. That sentence from Sri. Nara is now imprinted in my mind. We unconsciously do take pride as brahmins. Sir, it takes time and effort to shed those feelings of pride imprinted in our genes. But We have come a long way in the right direction.

"VeeN Perumaigal...Avai Vaideeka Perumaigal Endraalum, Avai Jaathi Perumaigal Endraalum. AVAI JAADHI MARUPPU PERUMAIGAL ENDRAALUM, waste..."

Sir, I agree with you 100% on this. How ever, I don't see it as 'jathi maruppu' at all; I just don't pay any importance to that aspect at all. When I see a person, I just see a person (granted, I do have a slightly increased regard for a person of Indian origin).

"Every moment of life gets sanctified only by a good thought, a good action...Every human has a right to such things...A Brahmin has, god willing, stronger samskaaras in this regard..."

Sir, to have a strong samakaaras as you mentioned, one need not be a brahmin at all. I know one gentle man who eats beef, rare (almost fresh meat) every night. He helps everyone with out expecting anything. Not even a 'thank you'. He suffered a lot in life. It is very difficult to develop and maintain that level acceptance and kindness towards others.

Sir, caste brahmins are blessed with so much knowledge. There is no two way about it. Having developed so much knowledge, it would be very disappointing to see them acting in a narrow minded fashoin. What is the use of knowledge if we can't spread that knowledge and develop kindness towards others. As you rightly mentioned, Vedas do contain many advices for a person to develop in to a jnani who can see all the living creatures as the children of God.
When that happens, 'மனிதன் என்பவன் தெய்வமாகலாம்'.

Kindly pardon me if I hurt your feelings in any way, please. Thank you.
 
Shri Raghy...I agree with you completely ....Let us spend our time thinking good thoughts and doing the little good things we can...

Yes...eating is one thing and living another...It is not necessary that a person who lives only on vegetables is a nice person..and the person who eats meat is a bad person...quite the opposite may be true...is seen to be true...But that does not mean I would advice people to take meat...It is in the same way I speak of Brahmins also...I am sure being a vegetarian could be helpful for a spiritual life...

Human life is a curious thing sir....very difficult to analyse...
....ur are very right when you say that good samskaras are not any caste's monopoly...but on that ground I cannot ask a vedic scholar to become a pawnbroker...or an archakar to being amway marketeer...that the latter may be a better person is another matter. Because a few students in government schools are doing well, I cannot ask a Vidya Mandir or DAV school boy to join a corpn school...Again I understand that by joining the latter school too he may learn a few good things ..

Life is full of contradictions...From arctic to antartic this is the case...India is a great civilisation...But like all things it too has contradictions....But the cross for that cannot be hung on the Brahmana's neck alone....I am only trying to give myself and others who may agree with me a sense of the community's good contributions to society...this will give self-confidence...which is necessary for a community battered no end by malicious elements. From Ramanuja to Rajaji, we have been doing inclusive things...we should do it more...

While other religionists are generally pinned down by a book, in Hinduism, despite the primacy given to the Veda there are many other sources reiterating our spirituality...Mahatmas, from varied backgrounds...great traditions based on cults..etc...all this adds to richness and plurality...we must celebrate all that...

Ramana, for example, through one question, does away with everything that is external to the individual...Who are you? makes even the Vedas redundant...does it not? Revelation gone in one breath... That is why westerners flock to Ramana....

Indha vishayangalil kodi pidippadhai vida..amaidhiyaaga maarudhalgalai seidhu kaatta vendum...When harijans went into Meenakshi temple for the first time, it was not done with any show...it was done in a Satwic way...because Rajaji was at the helm...not some street politico...

Tmalai Visiri Saamiyaar Aasramathil, Saapaadu Parimaarubavargal palar saadhaarana nilaiyil ullaa cooliegal thaan...(idhil naan saadhi kondu vara virumbavillai)...do it...that's all..

one of Rajaji's ancestors did the samskaras of an unknown person who died in his village...he was ostracised..but the name Nallaan (chakravarthi) stuck to him...which shows that the community had the spunk in itself to accept a great soul...

Let us honour all human greatness....
Let us foster everybody without caste considerations...but let us not thrash the Brahmin too...good or bad, he too is human (or is he...do you want him to repeat Shylock's dialogues)
Let us love all creatures....
Idharkellaam sibaarisu Vendumaa enna?

Aanaal Nam Naattai Aanda Aangileyaraikkooda Anbaal Veettukku Anuppa Poaraadiya KaLathil...
....Nadandhavaigalukkum Nadakkaadhavaigalukkum, Krodhathaal settle seiyya ninaippadhu Naagareegam Alla....

Sakalarum Sarisamaanam Endru Uruvaagiya India Kudiyarasil...Brahmananum Sarinigarsamaaanavanthaan... (apologies to RVR for using roman...I am trying out google transliteration as you suggested..Let me master its quick use...)
 
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Shri Raghy...when I made the statement about Vallalar, I was not giving him the certificate of being a Brahmana through my 'Vamana Matham Inc........'
I have spent too much time reading and loving him to do that...(if possible you can see my work...Vallalar - Pugaippadagaludam Oru Punidha Vaazhkai Payanam - Manivasagar Pathipppagam), the first ever photo travelogue of the saint...It is also a spiritual biography...
When I made the statement on Vallalar in this thread, it was only to assert my stand...Vallalar does not need my certificate...Fortunately, I do not require anybody to point that out to me.
 
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Sri Nara...Every caste is blowing its trumpet from the roof top...every proselytising religion had done more than what is being done in byelection vote capturing...
But when a poor Brahmana blows a self-regarding tune on his broken bamboo, you wag your finger at him....for apaswaras?
Are you over-re-acting?
 
Sri Nara...Every caste is blowing its trumpet from the roof top...every proselytising religion had done more than what is being done in byelection vote capturing...
But when a poor Brahmana blows a self-regarding tune on his broken bamboo, you wag your finger at him....for apaswaras?
Are you over-re-acting?

Yes sir you are right in pointing out that every caste is blowing its trumpet from the roof top.

When dealing with the subject of caste, its hard not to become a 'casteist'.

And i suspect that people who try to seek an identity for themselves thru caste, are those with poor self-esteem.

However, there are people in worse situations, they seek their identity wholly and completely thru caste.

If you go out, and see really well off people in the real world, esp those high fliers, caste does not feature in their dictionary.

(but ofcourse am not talking abt some ppl who started off humbly and amassed wealth later - there are always exceptions).

Caste, to me, is generally for those who are small-minded, yet to find a place for themselves, as individuals alone, in this big-big world.

No matter how much we blame proselytizing religions, politicians, everyone and everything in this world, this base reality remains -- some hindus practiced oppression in the name of caste in the past, and a section wishes to do so even today.

No matter how much we try to delude ourselves, the reality remains that some of our forefathers segregated, discriminated and perpetuated physical and mental atrocities.

Let us not obfuscate, play the blame game or wallow in self-pity or let our ego speak on our behalf..

When it comes to the downtrodden, please let us have a heart.

Regards.
 
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Happyhindu told,

Caste, to me, is generally for those who are small-minded, yet to find a place for themselves, as individuals alone, in this big-big world.

All our saints taught us to broad our mind. If we expand our mind and develop an universal love, that is nothing but realization.

Thirumoolar told

Love and Siva are One
The ignorant prate that Love and Siva are two,




 
Respectable Sri. Vamanan,

From your writings, I can see that I am not qualified enough to make suggestions to you. In spite of that, I humbly would like to say few things. I request you consider them as humble suggestions made for your kind review, please.

Sir, this is the time to learn ‘dis-attachment’. You are a very nice person on your own; you do not need to be identified with a caste. Blowing in favour of any caste is not expected from an exalted person who wrote on Vallalar. You have already travelled that distance to elevate yourself above the sewer called caste. Why do you want to go back to it even by offering a peripheral support?

Respected sir, when you immerse in Ramana’s works, particularly ‘Who am I?’, then you will realise where you really are. I was told by elders that I should consider myself as just a human being first before belonging to something else; similarly, I was asked to look at others in the same way. Nowadays, I see everyone just as human beings; that’s it. I am sure you see others with much more empathy. In fact I should learn from people of your calibre. Sir, I do not know anything about politics; so, I do not know about your comments on those lines. Please pardon me.

Regards.
 
Shri Raghy...A few Europeons come to meet me...When they talk to me they ask my caste. I do what you do..shall I say that I do a Raghy! They just smile knowingly...that I am trying to hide the fact that I am a Brahmin.

Your past cannot be wished away...But of course every day we are transcending it in our lives.
My grandmother lived in a Thanjavur town with her family..When her husband suddenly died she had to sell all the property and settle in a nearby village with her five daughters...She married every one of her girls before she died..Her first daughter became a widow and lived all her life in the village...Do you think that would have been possible without the friendship and protection of those nearby. I remember Gopalsami who later became a trade union leader in a company at Madurai...I remember Krishnamurthy who joined the army and died somewhere in Chandigarh...Dhanapal, who used to sleep outside my grandma's house every night was a farmer all his life and died in the village..These boys were all treated as friendly humans by my mother and grandma...though there were no egalitarian trumpets around at that time...
Let me cite some instances in Vallalar's life...An Iyengar Tahsildar was asked by Vallalar to buy him some headgear cloth (for a Muslim saint who was a friend of his). He did it in all humility. Vallalar wrote to him saying that he would pay for it. The Tahsildar said that it is my duty to obey command of my superiors, not to seek compensation for expenditure...If you read the letter of the Tahsildar you will see that a Brahmin official completely surrenders at the feet of Vallalar...making himself subservient to his spiritual authority...You must remember that in those days, Vallalar was just called Ramalinga Paradesi..an Aandi without a roof over his head at that time.
Once Sabapathy Gurukkul (who was the first priest at the Gnana Sabhai) was found reading a great book of Gnaana called Ozhivil Odukkam. Vallalar came to him and asked him what he was reading. He mentioned the above book. Vallalar asked him to throw it into the bin...because the Gurukkal was not an adhikaari to study the book.

From all this is it not clear...that gnaana cannot be recognised by caste alone....
How can a little spark, or even a speck of dust compare itself to the sun of Gnaana...
These worldly titles, names, posts, castes, religions...which we use...are finally...just mental constructs....useful in a limited way....like a knife that can be used for good or bad....Yet...I...as..an ordinary man dont have anything else...I am doing japa...I am praying with tears in my eyes....but again am brought down to earth by my fellowmen...How much do I earn? Is it enough? Is this house your own? Is it rented? How many cars do you have? Are they old or new models? These are the eyes with which the world looks at you..And in this world, both caste and the war against it have become just games...
Vallalar would call them Pillaivilaiyaattu....!
This is the game in which politicians, proselytisers and so-called reformers are indulging in. I am wonderstruck why people come and advice me to give up my caste. What if I became an infosys iyer and ask you to change your religion...would you do so?
I gave up the feeling of divisiveness based on caste long ago...(perhaps before I was born!). I shed tears at the cobblers and rickshawmen in Chennai who suffer in many ways. I once presented a scheme for nagaswaram players in temples..The official, who was one of them, said the chaps don't deserve anything. You will understand that the Nagaswaram players, who were once the great champions of classical music are no more at that height, musically.
Just as I was born in Calcutta, I happen to to born a Brahmin....Are you prepared to look at me as not being a Brahmin ! Will you never think for a moment that I am a Brahmin if you had the info? They why are you trying to obliterate it? This is another vicious form of casteism pervading our society.

Once an IAS officer of a certain caste (not Brahmin) met a Brahmin journalist. Both had a good discussion. Finally the IAS officer said, 'Parava Illai Saar. Neenga Brahmanaraa Irundhaalum Romba Nallavara Irukkeenga!'

Then the Journalist said -- ''Paravayillai Saar...Naan Kooda Ennamo Ninaichaen..Neenga ..........raa Irundhaalum Romba Nallavaraa Irukkeenga?
Then the IAS officer asked, ''Appadeenna Engaa Jaathikkaaaranga Enna Kettavangala?''
Why did it not occur to this officer, that the Brahmin also does not want his caste to be denigrated? Who gave him the right to deride Brahmins? What effrontery? Did you notice that I have not mentioned the caste of the official, because I don't want to defile my tongue by mentioning it in wrong light? Will you please do me the courtesy of treating me also like that?

It is this attitude that I decry...............Nothing else....

Do I become caste-ist if I give the information that I was born a Brahmin?

I don't wear the poonal, except when doing the karmas. I dont want even the courier boy to think I am separating myself from him by wearing some mark of difference.
Would you advice me to give up tharpana, shraddha...etc? One of my cousins who joined some Swamiji, gave up all rituals...that was his wish. I went to bid him goodbye...and found him packed up for being sent without any ceremonies..I didnt say a word to anybody..But if I prefer the karmas being done, can you quarrel with me?
I think many people are masquerading on behalf of malefic forces just to do Hinduism in....We should not give in to them.
At the same time, the true values of spirituality must be taught to everyone of the Hindus (and to others who come voluntarily)...Vedathri Maharishi did it beautifully...what a beatific presence he had..how kind and compassionate he was! When I meditate on him, I see him....The Brahmakumaris are doing it effectively...I have not heard either of them talking on this matter...Neither do I talk about it anywhere....why is anybody interested in flogging this horse?
A gracious yogi I know teaches dhyana and guides people who come to him...He told me this...I teach everybody...those who progress in the path are totally free of such thoughts...
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I am not a champion of the old order...the world changes so fast...and now is possibly on the brink of destruction -- no I don't believe in 2012 but am worried by the devastations on nature. So forget caste ....both its existence and non-existence and concentrate on progressing spirituallly...Don't did up past graves...Leave well alone......and live in amity....(Really sorrow for length of post...aduthu murai, surunga chollalai Kadaippidippaen...
Thanks for all the good feeling...
 
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Vamanan,

I perfectly understand your broad mind. Sometimes we can escape from caste. I live in Florida and did not reveal my caste to any Indian friends. When my daughter was in fifth grade, all her Indian friends had conversation about their caste and next day she screamed at me why she didn’t belong to any caste, so I got to reveal the caste in order to convince her.
 
Sri Vamanan Ji,


Shri Raghy...A few Europeons come to meet me...When they talk to me they ask my caste. I do what you do..shall I say that I do a Raghy! They just smile knowingly...that I am trying to hide the fact that I am a Brahmin.

Some whites i know ask for caste, and then explain back to me how heinous the caste system happens to be - and i later realise that they are missionaries.

Your past cannot be wished away...But of course every day we are transcending it in our lives.
My grandmother lived in a Thanjavur town with her family..When her husband suddenly died she had to sell all the property and settle in a nearby village with her five daughters...She married every one of her girls before she died..Her first daughter became a widow and lived all her life in the village...Do you think that would have been possible without the friendship and protection of those nearby. I remember Gopalsami who later became a trade union leader in a company at Madurai...I remember Krishnamurthy who joined the army and died somewhere in Chandigarh...Dhanapal, who used to sleep outside my grandma's house every night was a farmer all his life and died in the village..These boys were all treated as friendly humans by my mother and grandma...though there were no egalitarian trumpets around at that time...
Your grandmother and mother were obviously good folk. Which is why all people of one caste cannot be blamed for anything.

However, just because there are good folk, we cannot wish away crimes that were and are reported by 'dalits' perpetuated by the bad apples.

Let me cite some instances in Vallalar's life...An Iyengar Tahsildar was asked by Vallalar to buy him some headgear cloth (for a Muslim saint who was a friend of his). He did it in all humility. Vallalar wrote to him saying that he would pay for it. The Tahsildar said that it is my duty to obey command of my superiors, not to seek compensation for expenditure...If you read the letter of the Tahsildar you will see that a Brahmin official completely surrenders at the feet of Vallalar...making himself subservient to his spiritual authority...You must remember that in those days, Vallalar was just called Ramalinga Paradesi..an Aandi without a roof over his head at that time.
Once Sabapathy Gurukkul (who was the first priest at the Gnana Sabhai) was found reading a great book of Gnaana called Ozhivil Odukkam. Vallalar came to him and asked him what he was reading. He mentioned the above book. Vallalar asked him to throw it into the bin...because the Gurukkal was not an adhikaari to study the book.
All these stories are fine sir. But they do not negate the fact that even today there are people who wish to segregate and discriminate based on caste.

From all this is it not clear...that gnaana cannot be recognised by caste alone....
How can a little spark, or even a speck of dust compare itself to the sun of Gnaana...
These worldly titles, names, posts, castes, religions...which we use...are finally...just mental constructs....useful in a limited way....like a knife that can be used for good or bad....Yet...I...as..an ordinary man dont have anything else...I am doing japa...I am praying with tears in my eyes....but again am brought down to earth by my fellowmen...How much do I earn? Is it enough? Is this house your own? Is it rented? How many cars do you have? Are they old or new models? These are the eyes with which the world looks at you..And in this world, both caste and the war against it have become just games...
Vallalar would call them Pillaivilaiyaattu....!
This is the game in which politicians, proselytisers and so-called reformers are indulging in. I am wonderstruck why people come and advice me to give up my caste. What if I became an infosys iyer and ask you to change your religion...would you do so?
Lets not keep blaming politicians, proselytisers, reformers, and so on.

Nobody is asking you to give up your religion or caste (which to me is nothing more than culture).

The question asked is only this "why not permit so-called dalits also to learn vedas and work as priests".

I gave up the feeling of divisiveness based on caste long ago...(perhaps before I was born!). I shed tears at the cobblers and rickshawmen in Chennai who suffer in many ways. I once presented a scheme for nagaswaram players in temples..The official, who was one of them, said the chaps don't deserve anything. You will understand that the Nagaswaram players, who were once the great champions of classical music are no more at that height, musically.
Nice to note you gave up the feeling of divisiveness. Then, i hope, that would make you have an all-inclusive heart.

Just as I was born in Calcutta, I happen to to born a Brahmin....Are you prepared to look at me as not being a Brahmin ! Will you never think for a moment that I am a Brahmin if you had the info? They why are you trying to obliterate it? This is another vicious form of casteism pervading our society.
Yes, i am prepared to look at you as a human and not a brahmin. Infact only some brahmins wish to considered brahmins. Nobody else seems interested in considering them a brahmin. And also, am sorry i do not accept birth or learning as things that wud make someone a brahmin (and this last sentence is purely my personal pov).

Once an IAS officer of a certain caste (not Brahmin) met a Brahmin journalist. Both had a good discussion. Finally the IAS officer said, 'Parava Illai Saar. Neenga Brahmanaraa Irundhaalum Romba Nallavara Irukkeenga!'

Then the Journalist said -- ''Paravayillai Saar...Naan Kooda Ennamo Ninaichaen..Neenga ..........raa Irundhaalum Romba Nallavaraa Irukkeenga?
Then the IAS officer asked, ''Appadeenna Engaa Jaathikkaaaranga Enna Kettavangala?''
Why did it not occur to this officer, that the Brahmin also does not want his caste to be denigrated? Who gave him the right to deride Brahmins? What effrontery? Did you notice that I have not mentioned the caste of the official, because I don't want to defile my tongue by mentioning it in wrong light? Will you please do me the courtesy of treating me also like that? It is this attitude that I decry...............Nothing else....

Do I become caste-ist if I give the information that I was born a Brahmin?
The general attitude of the indian public (those who are caste-aware, that is) is that brahmins created the "spiritual" cause for segregation.

Unless such segregation ends, such ideaology (and comments) will exist, for no fault of present-day brahmins.

I don't wear the poonal, except when doing the karmas. I dont want even the courier boy to think I am separating myself from him by wearing some mark of difference.
Would you advice me to give up tharpana, shraddha...etc? One of my cousins who joined some Swamiji, gave up all rituals...that was his wish. I went to bid him goodbye...and found him packed up for being sent without any ceremonies..I didnt say a word to anybody..But if I prefer the karmas being done, can you quarrel with me?
Nobody asked you to give up your prayers.

Just because some so-called dalits also want access to the hindu way of life, does not mean you need to give up yours.

At the same time, i do not think present-day brahmins have any right to prevent so-called 'dalits' from learning vedas or becoming priests.

I think many people are masquerading on behalf of malefic forces just to do Hinduism in....We should not give in to them.
At the same time, the true values of spirituality must be taught to everyone of the Hindus (and to others who come voluntarily)...Vedathri Maharishi did it beautifully...what a beatific presence he had..how kind and compassionate he was! When I meditate on him, I see him....The Brahmakumaris are doing it effectively...I have not heard either of them talking on this matter...Neither do I talk about it anywhere....why is anybody interested in flogging this horse?
A gracious yogi I know teaches dhyana and guides people who come to him...He told me this...I teach everybody...those who progress in the path are totally free of such thoughts...
Methinks, if not for non-shankara matts who disseminated knowledge to all (irrespective of gender, caste or any such humbug), hinduism (the 'mass appeal' i mean) wud not have survived this long.

Just because some people (so-called 'dalits') want to be a part of mainstream hindusim, there is no reason to think that "malefic forces want to do hinduism in". Vedas are not the property of brahmins or anyone.

I am not a champion of the old order...the world changes so fast...and now is possibly on the brink of destruction -- no I don't believe in 2012 but am worried by the devastations on nature. So forget caste ....both its existence and non-existence and concentrate on progressing spirituallly...Don't did up past graves...Leave well alone......and live in amity....(Really sorrow for length of post...aduthu murai, surunga chollalai Kadaippidippaen...
Thanks for all the good feeling...
You do seem to accept that the world will change anyways -- yes sir, it will, irrespective of how we wish to see it.

Regards.
 
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HH - So what...if you want to address yourself to a certain feelings of hurt...do so...but if it is the only raaga u are going to play, i am interested in other airs, other melodies..
And there are different methods of playing music...As long as I am sure that I am not playing apaswara, I play it my way....you play it yours...
Don't judge my cutcheri by your past and yardsticks...I don't question yours...My yardsticks are based on my experiences and readings of the past...Whatever judgement I may have about you, I reserve for myself...I dont intend to change you..so please don't intend to change others based on what you think they represent...
I said I cannot change my caste, because in this tambam forum, I was hearing others telling me to give up this and that..If you read the responses you will see it..I dont need to be backpatted when I say that I accept change...It is needless...At the same time I am proud to represent a tradition that searched for the changeless, and apparently found it out...I value the search for Brahman....and I respect those who are searching for it...and I know them when I read them or hear them or see them...And such people are not restricted to any denomination....No need therefore for any shadowboxing....
 
(Addition) ...and the expression of pride in one's tradition, is not arrogance.
Once an interviewer told Jayakanthan, sir you are so arrogant....
Jayakanthan told him: I was alright...I became arrogant only after you began to interview me.
An assertion is a response, a reaction, to people to try to demean Brahmins...
LIke everybody else Brahmins also must correct themselves....when they are in the wrong.
But the reaction comes only when you try to grind them to the ground..
Indha action-reaction chakkar, can be surmounted only through love...That's why I gave examples...when a chasm is bridged once...it gives the possibility of doing it an infinite number of times....nt thru words but by thoughts and deeds.
 
....HHji....- your general views correspond greatly with that of the DK....what are the points of the DK that you are in agreement with...?
 
HH - So what...if you want to address yourself to a certain feelings of hurt...do so...but if it is the only raaga u are going to play, i am interested in other airs, other melodies..
And there are different methods of playing music...As long as I am sure that I am not playing apaswara, I play it my way....you play it yours...
Don't judge my cutcheri by your past and yardsticks...I don't question yours...My yardsticks are based on my experiences and readings of the past...Whatever judgement I may have about you, I reserve for myself...I dont intend to change you..so please don't intend to change others based on what you think they represent...
I said I cannot change my caste, because in this tambam forum, I was hearing others telling me to give up this and that..If you read the responses you will see it..I dont need to be backpatted when I say that I accept change...It is needless...At the same time I am proud to represent a tradition that searched for the changeless, and apparently found it out...I value the search for Brahman....and I respect those who are searching for it...and I know them when I read them or hear them or see them...And such people are not restricted to any denomination....No need therefore for any shadowboxing....

Vamanan,

This is the 2nd time you are making personal accussations. First you said i am neck-deep in guilt. What guilt?

And now you are saying things like
"if you want to address yourself to a certain feelings of hurt" and "Don't judge my cutcheri by your past and yardsticks."

Am not sure what gives you the right to make presumptions and like this and pass judgements on the poster.

Did i ever say that you should not play your music? If someone answers to your post, why do you assume so?

Nope i never backpatted you nor do you need to assume any shadow-boxing either.
 
(Addition) ...and the expression of pride in one's tradition, is not arrogance.
Once an interviewer told Jayakanthan, sir you are so arrogant....
Jayakanthan told him: I was alright...I became arrogant only after you began to interview me.
An assertion is a response, a reaction, to people to try to demean Brahmins...
LIke everybody else Brahmins also must correct themselves....when they are in the wrong.
But the reaction comes only when you try to grind them to the ground..
Indha action-reaction chakkar, can be surmounted only through love...That's why I gave examples...when a chasm is bridged once...it gives the possibility of doing it an infinite number of times....nt thru words but by thoughts and deeds.

healthy pride is fine.

vain pride is arrogance.

in certain individuals, it does not take too long for pride to turn into arrogance...

no matter what you say, you cannot negate the point of segregation and discrimination. I suppose your reaction is bcoz you have no answer to that.


....HHji....- your general views correspond greatly with that of the DK....what are the points of the DK that you are in agreement with...?

How much do you know of my general views. How much have you interacted with me so far? You have made just 33 posts as yet. And they are no different from those of jamadagni or saab - or should i ask you what are the other points of rightwing extremists that you are in agreement with?
 
Sri Vamanan,

I think each one of us have to right to have our views.

If you feel that Ms.Happy Hindu is having DK views, let her have. There is nothing wrong in it.

You can your views. There is absolutely no problem and you have every right to have your views.

Let us agree on views where we agree. Let us debate on issues where we can debate. Let us part as friends where we cannot agree and debate.

All the best
 
.....Moderators and everyone....I thought this was a forum for tamilbrahmins to discuss their experiences....You must be quite aware from the onerous tasks you are undertaking, that sometimes issues are hijacked....and impersonators abound. I thus feel some reservations about shadowboxing going on...When two good souls...or at least amicable souls meet....there is progress...But arguments for arguments sake dont help anybody...including the participants...Na Ayam Aatma Pravachanena Labhyaha...
So for the time being I am saying good bye to all the good souls in this forum....RVRji, Shri Kunjuppu, Ramansrini..innum palarukkum endaro Mahaanubhaavulu andhareeki vandhanamu...I am just preparing for a spiritual session with elders in an oldage home...let me increase my good karma than wallowing in the vicarious guilt of others..
 
Dear Shri Vamanan, Greetings!

From all this is it not clear...that gnaana cannot be recognised by caste alone...

[..]

I gave up the feeling of divisiveness based on caste long ago...(perhaps before I was born!).

... I happen to to born a Brahmin....Are you prepared to look at me as not being a Brahmin !


I don't wear the poonal, except when doing the karmas. ...

So forget caste ....both its existence and non-existence and concentrate on progressing spirituallly..

Pardon me for saying this, it is kind of hard to follow what you are trying to say. Perhaps if the post is a little bit organized people like me may be able to get a better understanding of your position.

You have written a lot about how unimportant caste is to you, and, at the same time you seem to want to be proud of your caste. You further go on to say you wear poonool only for doing karma -- does this not mean you do not even understand the role of poonool? In that case, it seems you have no respect at all for even the most fundamental aspects of the caste you were born in. Why bother about poonool even for karma, or why even karma? What you have written is a whole lot of அவியல் with very little coherence.

Cheers!
 
.....So for the time being I am saying good bye to all the good souls in this forum....RVRji, Shri Kunjuppu, Ramansrini..innum palarukkum endaro Mahaanubhaavulu andhareeki vandhanamu...I am just preparing for a spiritual session with elders in an oldage home...let me increase my good karma than wallowing in the vicarious guilt of others..

thank you vamanan (i presume you were passing on good wishes as i do not understand sanskrit).

best wishes for your good karma bank. hope you are able to share your experiences in the old age home with us when you come back.

i am quite sure, there will be people you meet there, who have stories which are exemplary.

thank you & best wishes
 
Best Wishes Sri Vamanan,

If you can have bliss by moving away from the forum and discussions, so be it. But the reason --as doing good Karma does not appear appealing to reason.

To this one should know what is good karma and bad karma. Once that is known, that itself is gnaana. A karma may be good or bad in relative terms.

If you mean this to be as help to the needy , then, yes let it be.

Good karma can be done right at the place where one is sitting.

It is said about "Kasthuri maan" that it will go in search of the source of the sweet smell of Kasthuri , whereas the truth is it emanates from its own body.

Regards and Best Wishes.
 
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Shri Kunjuppu...I can be equally sarcastic in my reaction. But I hold it back...
So also to the other respondent. See good karmas have already started....
I bid you eternal goodbye sir...
 
Shri Kunjuppu...I can be equally sarcastic in my reaction. But I hold it back...
So also to the other respondent. See good karmas have already started....
I bid you eternal goodbye sir...

vamanan,

i was not being sarcastic. which part of mine sounded thus?
 
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