Its becos the Vaishnava mind is too narrow to let anyone in!LOL
The longest conversation I have ever had with an ISCKONite is just 2 minutes..more than that its not possible..they are like some Abrahamic religion followers who says "my god is better than your god!"
Ok next is a Non ISCKONite Vaishnava..longest conversation ever was just 5 minutes..it was with an Iyengar priest cos he was arguing with me why I was hearing Chidananda Roopah Shivoham Shivoham when he called me and than he started his sermon!LOL
After 5 minutes I put the phone down and told him I am busy.
So Vaagmi ji..this is the truth..the whole truth and nothing but the truth!
Saivism and Vaishnavism have different identities.
Though Vaishnavites follow their ideology as per norms, Saivites, especially Smarthas, have been made more liberal on account of rise in the stature of Sankara Mutts, who are primarily talking about Vaishnavite related subjects. Most of the religious practitioners from Iyer community give importance to only Vaishnavite works, though sporting Vibhudhi. Of late, majority of Bhagavathas are from Iyer community, praising Rama and Krishna. Probably, this is fetching more money.
The Sankara Mutts, mostly dominated by Smarthas, are generally not speaking about the importance of Saivism, but always talk of about Vaishnavite works Ramanayana, Mahabhratha, Gita, Tiruppavai etc. Smartha Brahmins are supposed to give importance to Tiruvembhavai during the month of Marghazhi, which talks about Lord Shiva. How many are actually doing?
Probably, the reason is majority of Saivite works in Tamil were from NBs.
Kanchi Paramacharya was primarily responsible for the construction of Srirangam Rajagopuram. Due to his popularity, he was able to collect necessary sum and complete the work and the expenses for couple of tiers are met by non-Hindus. His popularity was cleverly utilised by the then Jeer (Azhagiyasinger - I think) to complete the mission.
These actions of Sankara Mutts and other liberal minded Smarthas make the Vaishnavites think they are superior and become more rigid and exclusive. Nothing else.
Even some members in this forum from Iyer community are more Vaishnavite in following than Saivites. One of the famous Carnatic Music composers Thiagaraja is a perfect example of Smartha's confused state of mind. Though born in a Saivite Brahmin family, majority of his works are related to Rama.
There is nothing wrong in Vaishnavites following their principles scrupulously but the importance given by Saivites, more particularly Smarthas, is quite unnecessary.