Thanks for proper explanation, Dr. Renuka. Let me simplify the word secular. The word is coined to ensure that no One Religion should ever think of dominating the other. Live & let live should the answer. We brahmins are no doubt are Hindus & tamilians, despite the fact that the the Dravidian parties , in order to gain cheap popularity in late 40s , dragged upto end of year 1980s, ridiculed Brahmins , calling them as ARYANS , no place in T.N. They went to the extent of molesting Brahmin women , under the instructions of Veeramani, of D.K. the chip of old block, has the audacity to scold Brahmin widows as MOTTAI PAAPPATTI.
Here I want to stress that I am the witness for all these atrocities , when I was a student in Trichy College. Trichy was their fortress. The tuft & sacred threads were cut openly by them & no one condemned. .One interesting episode :- In a Drama by name KEEMAYANAM , as opposed to Ramayanam used to be staged in Thevar Hall / Trichy, in which Sita would be shown as though she agreed to Ravanan proposal. How any woman could be chaste for 14 long years ,without a male ? To counter this a typical N. B. openly challenged in a meeting held at Srirangam, Saying " Yes I agree about Seetha , But he continued saying to the large crowd : aamammayya, saridaan, Your Leader Peryar is here for last 10 days. his wife Maniyammal is in Erode. How do you expect her to be Chaste ? INcluding me the crowd jeered .,
It is a proven fact that more than majority of Tamil brahmins are honest, law abiding & they have succeeded in neglecting the haters & no one talks of Brahmins. Youngsters are a different LOT One more thing . Brahmins only took the lead on Temple Entry of Dalits even as early as 1930/ 40s Madurai Vaidyanatha Iyer led the croud in Meemakshi Temple & created history in British rule.
Let us not find words to condemn ourselves ofcourse I know in the last 10 years about 10 % of Tamil brahmins love & marry N.Bs becauseb of the simple reason they work together, live in U.S mostly, Internt provides opportunities & mostly Girls as such are not that religious minded but when parents are religious, the Girl would say that the Boy is the Best . , even though she will not be knowing the parents of such Boys. Girls parents without creating Fuss, get her married publicly. realizing the order of the day?
I again stress that only the Caste hindus ( Pillai/ Mudaliar etc ) having unity see to it that the dalits do not raise their heads in those areas they have FULL control.
Rishikesan