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Guruji!
I learned that each person must do his own fighting.
Mr. A.M is just being funny.
Laugh at it and let it go!

guruvayurappan said:
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dear AM sir !
your words are again provoking. i infer that you feel SMT. VR is one of the intelligent persons of the forum and she deserve any special status.Accept that she is far far above all of us who can deal anything. you simply pass some comment and dwell inside the deep sea (lake )and the hurt feelings is not coming to your vision or ears.you dwell in lake and the person living in the land only will feel the heat .
guruvayurappan
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I also know that the only way to win these type of fellows is
to tear up the paper selected and read the other one not selected.
His name will be there. So it can be inferred that
the paper selected DID not have his name :)


guruvayurappan said:
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dear VR !
you never say not possible and think that it is always possible . hence i told that you have coin which has head on both sides.(in SHOLAY hindi film vijay-amithabachan -will always carryout things with tossing the coin & the secret will be revealed in the end )some may cheat with thiru ula seaatu by writting their own option in both the paper bit or pocket.
guruvayurappan
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Visalakshi Ramani said:
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WOW!!!
I never thought of this possibility. :)
I have heard about double headed snakes,
turtles and worms but double headed coins !!!
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You did not even see the multi-year hit Hindi film "Sholay"....??
 
Raji Ram said:
I am not forbidding anything... only suggesting!

1. I think there is no need for any statistics at all, except to bring back the thread to the first page!! :becky:
2. S! S! S! Go ahead ... Here is your favorite smiley! :moony:
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Thank you ! I feel humbled!!!:humble:
It is not only to bring it to the first page
but also keep it alive from being sealed
with the Brahma mudichchu.:)
 
Sowbagyavathy VR, Greetings.

I had a lot of respect for you. I was taking part in discussions with you on regular basis. But of late, I did not feel like doing it.


It is very unfortunate you had a fixation on a new member. You did not welcome that member at any time. But you really worked hard to make her feel unwelcome. ( when She introduced herself as a woman, what is so hard in accepting that member as a woman?)


That new member had not insulted you or anyone else before. She even took some of your comments in lighter vein and liked them! But for some reason you had such a fixation on her, you kept writing innuendos about that member. Now you have gone to the extent of making that member as unpopular as you could.


I counted 20 plus instances of your innuendos against that new member. Why? What did she do to you? Is that because she decided ‘not to die?’ Is that because she posted 4 songs in total in your precious thread?

You went further to call her ‘Wench’. I strongly object to that.

As a very senior member, you dragged a new member in the dirt. I am requesting you to reverse all your unjustifiable actions, please. Alternatively, you are welcome to explain members like me why you had to have a fixation on her.


Even in your recent post, you addressed her as he/she although she said she is a woman, quite a few times. You actually are trying to drive her out of this forum. Why?

Kindly provide me with some reasons for your actions, please. Thank you.

( I am aiming to get some justifications for the unjust way this new member was treated. Shall I say bullied by this forum? Unfortunately, such unjust actions were liked by many senior members. I will not be a part of it).


Cheers!
 
Raghy said:
Sowbagyavathy VR, Greetings.

I had a lot of respect for you. I was taking part in discussions with you on regular basis. But of late, I did not feel like doing it.


It is very unfortunate you had a fixation on a new member. You did not welcome that member at any time. But you really worked hard to make her feel unwelcome. ( when She introduced herself as a woman, what is so hard in accepting that member as a woman?)


That new member had not insulted you or anyone else before. She even took some of your comments in lighter vein and liked them! But for some reason you had such a fixation on her, you kept writing innuendos about that member. Now you have gone to the extent of making that member as unpopular as you could.


I counted 20 plus instances of your innuendos against that new member. Why? What did she do to you? Is that because she decided ‘not to die?’ Is that because she posted 4 songs in total in your precious thread?

You went further to call her ‘Wench’. I strongly object to that.

As a very senior member, you dragged a new member in the dirt. I am requesting you to reverse all your unjustifiable actions, please. Alternatively, you are welcome to explain members like me why you had to have a fixation on her.


Even in your recent post, you addressed her as he/she although she said she is a woman, quite a few times. You actually are trying to drive her out of this forum. Why?

Kindly provide me with some reasons for your actions, please. Thank you.

( I am aiming to get some justifications for the unjust way this new member was treated. Shall I say bullied by this forum? Unfortunately, such unjust actions were liked by many senior members. I will not be a part of it).


Cheers!
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Dear Raghy,

I know this post is directed to VR Ji but I feel Amirtha is quite capable of handling herself without anyone speaking up for her.

All of us here have been "hit" "attacked" before and also guilty of "hitting" and "attacking" others and somehow survived all those attacks and developed our own style of writing here.

I feel when a member puts another member in a difficult situation like what you are doing to VR ji..it becomes very unpleasant.

I am not standing up for VR ji here..she is capable to reply herself but I feel let Amirtha sort it out with VR Ji.

Frankly speaking I am sick and tired of seeing this drag on.

It's high time we move on since VR Ji has agreed to stay back for the sake of members in forum and Amirtha is still very much welcomed here too.

Let's not create more obstacles for ourselves.

Believe me life is too short for good friends and new members to start off on the wrong foot.

I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

If I have crossed my limits..I apologize to you.

Renu
 
Dear Raghy,


I really request you to end this with VR Ji cos it took many of us members here sincerely pleading to her to stay and I really do not want her to be disheartened reading your post and decide to quit again.

Please try to understand VR ji is like a mother here to most of us (not in age but in wisdom)
Mothers have their preferences and their style too ..I sometimes can't stand my own mother too when she starts arguing with me but still she is my mum.

So try to think of VR ji that way too..some of us might not see eye to eye with each other but love still remains.
 
i echo with raghy.

my advice to amirtha is to ignore the provocation and continue to post. afterall it takes 2 hands to clap. the bullying will stop after a while.

some people have bloated ego what to do?
 

Let us not make a mountain out of a mole hole! This thread is in the G D section and so there is no 'no entry' to anyone.
Anything worth 'thinking over' can be posted here but let us not make them provocative. Let peace and harmony return. :peace:
 
The discussion started of alright as in # 3395 and #3414.

But got diverted by the irresponsible posts and words.

I will remain far away from teasing and taunting new bees and the old bees

in the future-despite of how close they had been to me in the past.

I owe nothing to anyone .. least of all an explanation.

What HAS to be proved can not be worth much anyway.

Now the million dollar question is "Who is bullying Whom???".

Dear Raji,
Hope THIS won't be classified as an indirect attack!!! :rolleyes:
 
In addition to counting 20 posts which can used against me, :bump2:

some time can be spent to add up the objectionable posts from the other side too.

And to think that I crossed swords with the uncrowned 'king of the jungle'

(The LION of the forum) for the sake of this very member!!! :tsk:

Any more posts regarding to this issue WILL be ignored by me. :whistle:

So please do not waste your precious time and energy

in hair-splitting and hatred-breeding.

Forum is big enough to give a spot to each of us to live peacefully

without crossing the paths of those whom we do not like any more. :couch2:
 
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I had talked about the undesirable "All or none" policy.

I almost fell a victim to the very same policy.

Thanks to you my friends who made me realize my folly

and come out of my wrong decision. :)
 
Money

A feast is made for laughter, :grouphug:
and wine maketh merry; :spit:
but money answereth all things.
Ecclesiastes 10:19

There are few ways in which a man can be :popcorn:
more innocently employed than in getting money.
Samuel Johnson.

The love of money is the root of all evil. :doh:
I Timothy 6:10
 
Living in an affluent society makes us develop tastes for fancy food and drinks.:hungry:
Once back in the place where we belong to, these will be mere dreams.
Should we indulge in them now (when it is available) and crave for them later
or should we stay away from them now and live with contentment later??? :noidea:
 
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