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How are these educated and employed people who use sexual favors as the incentive, gift, bribe, perk better than
those poor wretches - who try to make a living out of sex-since they have no other skill nor qualifications nor employment??? :mad:
 
By getting worked up TOO MUCH and anxious and excited
they may end up in a fiasco! Serves them right too!


Dear Sheikh Ravi,

You are HIGHLY judgmental yaar.Sex scandals happen everywhere.
Recently in Singapore some high ranking official was caught for receiving sexual favors in return for issuing business licences.

Even the most unassuming person working in any field might be committing sexual acts to improve their career.

Ravi you see even for people who are used to regular sex life prior to marriage a Shanti Muhurtam will still remain special.
Even a second marriage Shanti Muhurtam will remain special with the same anticipation.

You see cos people who love each other and value love are anticipating the extension of love in their act but those who are obsessed with the physical act are the one's who feel the most anxiety and get worked up and can't wait to unleash the untamed animal in them!!LOL

BTW once one of my Casanova male doctor friends told me that each person is like a finger print.
No one is the same and he said each encounter is new and exciting.
 
He must be HUNTER and all the dames his games.
Dames??? :decision: Games???

I am sure he has a target in life and also

a record of his extreme encounters
and extra marital affairs. :whoo:

"No one is the same and he said each encounter is new and exciting"......

Lucky Chap....??!!

TVK
 
Visala Ji and Ravi Ji,

Yes when an actor acts and when they have chemistry, it is not the love chemistry between them, it is the friendship as a two good human beings have for each other.. I will give you one example.. I was 15 1/2 when I danced for a telugu movie.. and I was quite conservative in my approach to anything.. when I started to rehearse and came to know I have to act or rather dance with a male, I got all distressed and the whole group of dancers the male and female were mostly husband and wife team.. the dancer who was to dance with me as the main dancer was about 40 plus and had a daughter who was 12.. so he sat with me along with his wife and told me.. " amma naan unnoda appa pola, yennakku unnai madiri oru ponnu irrukka.. idho ivanga yen wife and she aslo dances.. so unnai naan onnum panna matten ma.. nee dhairiyamaa en kooda dance pannalam.. this was of course after I made a fuss that I won't dance with a male .. so during all this my nana was informed and he told me Ok amma,if you don't want, I won't force you, we can have someone else dance, not a problem, you please don't be unhappy I don't want you being sad.. Then I felt, Ok when these are good people I have my nana here, what is that I am afraid of .. and then I rehearsed, to tell you the truth, I felt nothing but you can tell I was quite shy but my expression were right for the situation.. there was a dance pose I refuse to do because I thought it did not feel right they right away changed it for me.. so I am glad I did it.. and got three major offers.. and my Nana sitting right behind those starlwarts of the movie industry nodded " NO NO" and I told them I don't care for movies and I was doing this for my Nana.. one of the gentleman asked me do you know what you are throwing away, I said ' YES I know but still not interested"

Later my nana told me I will act only if I was interested and only in our movies and no where else so that I will be fully protected.. My nana protected me like a hawk.. he will not let anyone say a word about me.. I used to turn heads in those days and also used to see people slow down their cars, I am not joking it is like a dream..

I have no regrets about anything, but one regret is I could have acted in my Nana's movies and if that movies had made money he could have gotten out of all the debts in the end and would not have died a pauper.. that will stay with me till I die.. I have quite a few friends while growing up in the industry and everyone treated me like I was their child or sister.. SO I guess I am blessed..

You see it is easy what we perceive from the outside, but if you go back to my other mail you will find that how many people flock in the set and no way you can feel anything special for the opposite actor.. what you see is a fraction but what you see behind the scene is what I am talking about.. even in any different angle there are so many around them.. hahahahahahha!!!!!


And Visala ji, about extra marital affairs.. it is not something new it has been an age old thing... You guys know that I was adopted, I lived with my second adopted family in Calcutta and the apt where we lived, I knew a woman who's husband encouraged to be with his boss and the family is a south indian iyer family and I have heard many stories that Mysore Maharaja had with married woman and also some with the british.. so .. it all happens.. with normal folks, it is just that you have not encountered them or heard about them.. I have heard more stories about normal woman and men with affairs than in the movie industry.. so I know both the worlds..
 
Shmt.Subhalakshmi,

You were a blessed lady with good people around you. No one exploited you in this film industry.

The things are not the same for all. And all are not same as you are, as an individual, in film industry.

We do know couple of actresses who remained disciplined and strict and never bothered to lose any lucrative offer which would require extraordinarily special performances of vulgarity. They didn't even bother quitting the industry.

As far as premarital and extra marital affairs are concerned, it is there in every strata of the society.

The point is, When sex is the play thing and is often played, Shanthimuhurtham is just an another exiting encounter, as usual. Many such exiting new encounters before marriage and many may happen in future. It's just fulfillment of needs and there is nothing special to be considered other then an exiting new encounter!!

 
Society changing to 180 degree in next 50 years. It is the women who shall transform the society as they feel like and as per their wish.

In metro, so called civilized people are already in living-in relationship. So you have multiple choices as much as you can have before and after the marriage.

Social taboo is controlled by women only. Men are like dogs in every street except few and honored citizen.

Renu, version is somewhat correct. She is open minded with great experience in medical profession.
 
Renu, You can transform the society with your great experience and communication power. I think , your children are blessed one. You have no social taboo as you are open minded.

Do you also advocate living-in relationship, by the way ?

As in Delhi and Mumbai metro, it is very much prevalent. They do not mind to play and enjoy life like free birds.
 
Society changing to 180 degree in next 50 years. It is the women who shall transform the society as they feel like and as per their wish.

In metro, so called civilized people are already in living-in relationship. So you have multiple choices as much as you can have before and after the marriage.

Social taboo is controlled by women only. Men are like dogs in every street except few and honored citizen.

Renu, version is somewhat correct. She is open minded with great experience in medical profession.

When women ARE virtuous men are like dogs ( in your own words)
So when women also become B****ES, what will happen??? :scared:

"Sthreeshu dushtaasu vaarshneya..." In Bhagavat Gita explains in

great details what will be the outcome when women also get

perverted .

Why do we need multiple choice??

Is life a question paper with multiple choices???

Animals and birds are MONOGAMOUS for life!

Men and women want to live and enjoy like free birds!

But birds stick to their own partners for life
and do not go hunting in the streets for likely victims! :doh:
 
Does Living in relationship becomes acceptable and venerable if
DR. Renu O.Kays it??? :shocked:

Being open minded NEED NOT mean promoting adultery! :nono:

Renu, You can transform the society with your great experience and communication power. I think , your children are blessed one. You have no social taboo as you are open minded.

Do you also advocate living-in relationship, by the way ?

As in Delhi and Mumbai metro, it is very much prevalent. They do not mind to play and enjoy life like free birds.
 
Health.

Look to your health; and if you have it, praise God, :hail:

and value it next to a good conscience; :first:

for health is the second blessing that we mortals are capable of; :second:

a blessing that money cannot buy. :nono:

Izaak Walton.
 
Vishu,
That is the difference between urban North and South India! I believe South India is more religious than urban North. They all value their culture and stick to it.

No body trust North Indians abroad specially in business..Are they not trustworthy or crooked ? Exceptions are there but it is general feeling abroad !!!
 
dear Mr. Mannu!

I am glad at least South India tries to retian the value of Values and is more religious and pious. :pray:

I am sure even South Indians DO NOT trust a person from the North the same way they would trust another person from the South. :suspicious:

Your own words prove that they (people from the North) are not trust worthy except for a few exceptions. :spy:

Well the North has earned a bad name and we all know how difficult it is to come out of a bad reputation! :gossip:


Vishu,
That is the difference between urban North and South India! I believe South India is more religious than urban North. They all value their culture and stick to it.

No body trust North Indians abroad specially in business..Are they not trustworthy or crooked ? Exceptions are there but it is general feeling abroad !!!
 
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What is the name of this flower???
Lotus??? :decision: Belladonna lily???
 
You mean the Casanova (Don Juan?) male doctor who reads people like finger print.
I won't go a mile near him. I wish the others won't either. He must be shame to his profession. Whether or not he is lucky depeneds on what we think it is to be lucky!

Dear VR Ji,

You know I will tell you this about him.He might be a casanova but as a doctor I salute him.
You know why?
Once he was posted to a remote area in India for internship before coming back to M'sia.
There was a HIV postive pregnant lady who was brought to the hospital in labour and no senior doctor wanted to conduct the delivery cos the patient was a HIV postive.

He was the only doctor who conducted the delivery even without nurses helping him.
Other doctors warned him that you are new and inexperienced you are risking your life here.
Just let her deliver on her own.
This casanova told the other doctors that "death will sure for everyone one day and I do not lose anything helping this poor lady"

Even when we worked here in Malaysia..once he was driving by a highway and saw an accident.
A truck was hanging by the cliff.
Ok this doc always travels with a fully equipped emergency kit in his car to help out anyone in need.
So he stopped and saw the person stuck in the truck and the side of the truck was dangling on the cliff and the truck driver was bleeding profusely.

The rescue and police team were cutting the truck to try to take out the person but this doctor saw that patient was bleeding.
He risked his life and went to the edge of the truck and fixed an IV drip for the driver who was stuck.
Even the rescue team didn't dare go near the driver cos if they go in the drivers cabin the truck tilts towards the cliff and risks falling into the ravine.

So he fixed the drip risking his own life and saved the patient.

So for me he might be a casanova but he is the bravest doctor I have ever seen.
 
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