Every problem in the world can be traced back
invariably to one of these three things...
Sex, Power and Money!
(aka PeNNaasai, MaNNaasai and Ponnaasai).
I have heard and known people who withhold sex
to punish/ starve their legally wedded partners in life!
Thus they inflict pain by refusing pleasure.
Dialogues of Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj:
Question: I am an adopted child. My own father I do not know. My mother died when I was born. My foster father, to please my foster mother, who was childless, adopted me -- almost by accident. He is a simple man -- a truck driver. My mother keeps the house. I am 24 years now. For the last two and half years I am travelling, restless, seeking. I want to live a good life, a holy life.
What am I to do?
Maharaj: Go home,take charge of your father's business, look after your parents in their old age. Marry the girl who is waiting for you, be loyal, be simple,be humble. Hide your virtue, live silently. The five senses and the three qualities (gunas) are your eight steps in yoga. And 'I am' the Great Reminder (mahamantra). You can learn from them all you need to know. Be attentive, enquire ceaselessly. That is all.
Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj in I AM THAT
they have no idea that their lawfully wedded spouses could be gunning it with someone else!LOL
So whose pain is it now?
certain times of day are crisis time in all homes.When does the 'tholai pesi' becomes a 'thollai pesi'?
When one son is chatting online and
one sister is talking on landline
and the mobile rings nonstop from
some remote corner of the house
in which you are alone by yourself! :wacko:
certain times of day are crisis time in all homes.
When many knock on door one after the other, simultaneous ,mobile,landline and online chats .
to add to it one is alone home.
this happens to me everyday between 10 to 10.30 am .
so vrji you are not alone.