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Think or sink!

Visalakshi Ramani said:
I had seen in several movies in which the hero/ heroine
dance with abandon to get over their surging anger.

I myself had played veena like a dame possessed by anger
to fight my anger and become calm again a few years ago.

The extra energy created by fear/ anger/ displeasure/ has to
find a right outlet or it will the make person blow a fuse in his/her top!
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Dear VR ji,

When I am angry or sad angry cos I seldom really get angry..mine is more of a sad anger then I can get all moody and that time I like to apply dark red lipstick and let loose my hair and feel very vampire like to diffuse my anger sad feeling.

Then when I feel very vampire enough I sing songs that have dark mood to it.
It is this time I like to identify with my dark side and that brings me back to my normal mood.

I think each one of us have our own way of coping with anger.
 
renuka said:
Dear VR ji,

When I am angry or sad angry cos I seldom really get angry..mine is more of a sad anger then I can get all moody and that time I like to apply dark red lipstick and let loose my hair and feel very vampire like to diffuse my anger sad feeling.

Then when I feel very vampire enough I sing songs that have dark mood to it.
It is this time I like to identify with my dark side and that brings me back to my normal mood.

I think each one of us have our own way of coping with anger.
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Dear Renu,
So when you get angry you spread fear in the hearts of the onlookers with dark red lips and hair let loose.
I think you identify yourself with Durga Devi at those times.
My little Juju runs amok with her pirate's sword (filled with air) and smashes everything in the house.
Some people shout. Some others curse. Some people sing or dance or stitch or play veenaa.:)
If it is too late or too silent to do any of these things, I will pull down all the clothes from my clothes almarah and rearrange them again.
Each dress has a story associated with it. So remembering all those occasions will mellow down the anger and let my mind become calm once again.

 
From a forwarded mail...

Once upon a time there was a king who wanted to go fishing.

He called the royal weather forecaster and enquired as to the weather forecast for the next few hours. The weatherman assured him that there was no chance of rain in the coming days.

So the king went fishing with his wife, the queen. On the way he met a farmer on his donkey. Upon seeing the king the farmer said, "Your Majesty, you should return to the palace at once because in just a short time I expect a huge amount of rain to fall in this area".

The king was polite and considerate, he replied: "I hold the palace meteorologist in high regard. He is an extensively educated and experienced professional. Besides, I pay him very high wages. He gave me a very different forecast. I trust him and I will continue on my way." So he continued on his way.

However, a short time later a torrential rain fell from the sky. The King and Queen were totally soaked and their entourage chuckled upon seeing them in such a shameful condition.

Furious, the king returned to the palace and gave the order to fire the weatherman at once!
Then he summoned the farmer and offered him the prestigious and high paying role of royal forecaster.

The farmer said, "Your Majesty, I do not know anything about forecasting. I obtain my information from my donkey. If I see my donkey's ears drooping, it means with certainty that it will rain."

So the king hired the donkey. And so began the practice of hiring asses to work in the government and occupy its highest and most influential positions.

AND LATER SPREAD INTO COMPANIES TOO
Is this true??? Can this be true??? :decision:
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There are other ways of coping with anger.

One of my relatives washes clothes.

In the process of washing bangs the wet clothes repeatedly on the floor to remove dirt .

Productive work to release anger though sometimes clothes get torn.lol
 
Visalakshi Ramani said:
From a forwarded mail...

Once upon a time there was a king who wanted to go fishing.

He called the royal weather forecaster and enquired as to the weather forecast for the next few hours. The weatherman assured him that there was no chance of rain in the coming days.

So the king went fishing with his wife, the queen. On the way he met a farmer on his donkey. Upon seeing the king the farmer said, "Your Majesty, you should return to the palace at once because in just a short time I expect a huge amount of rain to fall in this area".

The king was polite and considerate, he replied: "I hold the palace meteorologist in high regard. He is an extensively educated and experienced professional. Besides, I pay him very high wages. He gave me a very different forecast. I trust him and I will continue on my way." So he continued on his way.

However, a short time later a torrential rain fell from the sky. The King and Queen were totally soaked and their entourage chuckled upon seeing them in such a shameful condition.

Furious, the king returned to the palace and gave the order to fire the weatherman at once!
Then he summoned the farmer and offered him the prestigious and high paying role of royal forecaster.

The farmer said, "Your Majesty, I do not know anything about forecasting. I obtain my information from my donkey. If I see my donkey's ears drooping, it means with certainty that it will rain."

So the king hired the donkey. And so began the practice of hiring asses to work in the government and occupy its highest and most influential positions.
AND LATER SPREAD INTO COMPANIES TOO
Is this true??? Can this be true??? :decision:
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In many business families, those unfit for business are encouraged to get government jobs.

our community also pushes our children to take up govt jobs citing job security.

we also realise some of our children can do well only in govt jobs which are not demanding.

those who see nothing and hear nothing and follow the straight path end up at the highest and influential positions . They are like the HMV dog, recognising only their Masters Voice.
 
krish44 said:
There are other ways of coping with anger.

One of my relatives washes clothes.

In the process of washing bangs the wet clothes repeatedly on the floor to remove dirt .

Productive work to release anger though sometimes clothes get torn.lol
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dear Mr. Krish,
If the clothes get torn, in the process of washing
then it is destructive work and NOT producive work!!! :rolleyes:
 
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One day my Little Juju became so angry that she declared openly that she wanted to break something in the house.
I got worried since I have am impressive collection of the collectible glass tumblers sold as momentoes in USA.
Thank God, she ONLY threatened us but did not not actulally break anything in the house.
 
I have read that there is a house which encourages people to break the ceramic plates, cups and bowls to help them release their anger.

Of course the service can't be free and so all the users will have to pay for all the nice things they had willingly smashed!
 
krish44 said:
In many business families, those unfit for business are encouraged to get government jobs.

our community also pushes our children to take up govt jobs citing job security.

we also realise some of our children can do well only in govt jobs which are not demanding.

those who see nothing and hear nothing and follow the straight path end up at the highest and influential positions . They are like the HMV dog, recognising only their Masters Voice.
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Dear Mr. krish,
I will define a job in a private sector as
"All work and low pay!" :pout:

I will define a government job as
"All pay and no work!" :couch2:

AND those lucky blighters continue to get paid
even after they retire from the job in which
they might have actually done NOTHING!!! :rolleyes:
 
Is Anything pink in color???!
It is then a collectible!!!
This is little Juhu's philosophy in life.
She buys everything that is pink.
She wants everything that is pink.
She borrows everything that is pink.
The pink tablets bought by my husband vanished
within one minute it was removed from the paper cover.
Thank God the little angel merely hid it from us and
DID NOT try to eat it - since it was of a lovely pink shade!
 
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Most marriages survive since they are made either in Heaven or in Hell
The man and his wife are made for each other in Heaven or Hell.
The invariable comment we hear about every other couples is
"Eppadiththaan ivanOda (ivaLoda) kudiththananm seyyaraanO ( seyyaraaLO)!!! :tsk:
VErE yaaraa irunthaalum Odip poyiruppaa!!!" :bolt:
 
And that is not the end of the story...

The pressure cooker in the house will work
only for its mistress or the lady in the house.

"Athu naan sonnaththaan kekkum. Nee sonnaak kekkaathu"

'Athu' can be the man or the machine depending on the context! :rolleyes:

So also the sewing machine which will give / create
every possible problem when handled by another person. :frusty:

The washing machine will drive crazy every user other than its owner. :drum:

So it is NOT just the man and his wife who are made for each other. :nono:

Everything in every household is made for the lady /gentleman of the house.

How great must be GOd to weave such infinite patterns,
which fit in so well, but only in one unique way!!! :hail:
 
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The pink birth control pills for ladies.

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The blue pills for men is for you-know-what!!! :rolleyes:

The blue pills try to impregnate women :preggers:

and the pink pills try to prevent it from happening. :hand:

See how the Pink and Blue color scheme works in every level!!! :)
 
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Net result....???

A mere server may be considered
as a real master chef!!! :rolleyes:

Often there is race and a scuffle between the servers
for the spot and of course the spot light! :)
 
I for one think that something in the post must be original.

A comment or an image or a useful information or any such thing.

There is nothing great about serving what has been cooked by someone else!
 
I differ. Cooking is an art. So is arranging and serving. In iyer wedding lunch, a small quantity of all dishes is served in the beginning, so the guest can decide what to eat and what to miss. In iyengar weddings, this is not the practice, and the guest is expected to be moderate and responsible and eat accordingly - when to say more or when to say no.

One joke in family circulation; the grand old man will be walking along while serving and control the 'serv'.

"பார்த்து கொஞ்சமா போடுங்கோ, பின்னாலே புளியோதரை, சர்க்கரை பொங்கல் சாப்பிடணும்."

Later

"முன்னாலியே நிறைய சாப்பிட்டு இருப்பா, பார்த்து கொஞ்சமா போடுங்கோ"

Visalakshi Ramani said:
I for one think that something in the post must be original.

A comment or an image or a useful information or any such thing.

There is nothing great about serving what has been cooked by someone else!
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