Our issue is varna club. Who is talking about lions or rotary or free masons? They too need some qualifications for entry and most important - acceptance.
Dear Sarang ji,
The examples you have given just stressed upon acceptance by inlaws in an intercaste marriage....that is change of lifestyle..and as I said again and again..that has no added value or loss to our spiritual journey.
Those are just mundane day to day "club" requirements..that is for someone to join a club one needs to fulfill certain criteria.
Out here to join the Royal Selangor Club one needs to be of a certain social standing.
So like wise..acceptance by inlaws is like joining a club..some clubs process the application form early and some process the application form later or some delete the application form itself.
So you see spirituality is not about joining a Varna Club..its about how to get into God's Club!