Why are we attracted to beautiful things - that are dangerous

[renuka]

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Dear RR ji,

Lets not forget the BAD BOYS.

Azhagiya Asura!

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[auh]

But whatever said and done it is the woman with high IQ and beauty that knows how to handle her whips and handcuffs well..the average Jane just lies on her back!LOL

Somehow, all these descriptions seem to be S&M literature !

 

[Vaagmi]

Renukaji,

But whatever said and done it is the woman with high IQ and beauty that knows how to handle her whips and handcuffs well..the average Jane just lies on her back!LOL

Yeah. Indeed so. They need, at times, to be handcuffed and whipped to bring them down to firm ground from the rarified heights where they keep floating always. Or else they have to meet with an accident when they realize that they are not after all the centre of all the world. A casual look becomes "look viduthal" and a casual decent smile recognizing the person's presence becomes drooling in the limited vocabulary of such rakshasis. Until a rakshasan comes and brings them down to firm grounds. LOL.

 

[ashwin_ash]

Dear Sravna,

Anyone can get carried away by anything...many people get carried away becos of beauty,academic excellence,lineage,caste,money,power or anything..the problem is EGO that one actually identifies with all these.

Anyone who gets carried away with all these is surely not intelligent enough.

Who is beautiful? What is beautiful? Are only humans beautiful? Aren't animals and nature beautiful?

 

[sravna]

Dear Sravna,

Anyone can get carried away by anything...many people get carried away becos of beauty,academic excellence,lineage,caste,money,power or anything..the problem is EGO that one actually identifies with all these.

Anyone who gets carried away with all these is surely not intelligent enough.

Dear Renuka,

What I am saying is if you are intelligent and egoistic you can potentially harm others. Add beauty to it, the intoxication with self increases manifold. Beauty and intelligence without ego is what makes you perfect and most attractive

 

[prasad1]

Dear Renuka,

What I am saying is if you are intelligent and egoistic you can potentially harm others. Add beauty to it, the intoxication with self increases manifold. Beauty and intelligence without ego is what makes you perfect and most attractive

I agree in principle with your theory.
There are great Gurus sitting in Himalayan caves, they probably do not have any ego to go out and show to the world, what they have achieved. So that knowledge is lost. If Adi Shankara did not have an ego would he tour India to preach (I admire Shankara)? So all ego is not necessarily bad. If we did not have some ego, we too would not be here posting our views.

If there was beautiful stream, or an animal in the forrest not known to human, how do we know it is beautiful? A flower advertises its presence with vibrant color, and strong perfume then only we can enjoy it and appreciate it.

So beauty and/or intelligence will not be recognized without ego. As long as we have this body, ego is inevitable.

 

[Raji Ram]

.......... 1. What I am saying is if you are intelligent and egoistic you can potentially harm others.
2. Add beauty to it, the intoxication with self increases manifold. Beauty and intelligence without ego is what makes you perfect and most attractive

OMG! How can an egoistic person harm others? She (because women are in this debate) will not be liked either by men or women!

2. There is a name for such 'intoxicated' women - Proud Peacock! (Why Peacock???? :lol: )

 

[Raji Ram]

We can create at least an 'ashtOthram' for these 'intoxicated' women with English and Tamil words! :blah:

P P (mentioned earlier), head weight, Lord, thala(i) ganam, thimiru pidichchava, ahangAri, adangA pidAri, thAnthONi, thAnAvadhi and so on.......

BTW, which language is 'kithAppu'??

 

[Raji Ram]

Here is an example of beauty and talent!

Actor Mithun Chakraborty said that Sen was undisputed number one actor and a rare mix of beauty and talent.

Source: http://www.tamilbrahmins.com/politics-current-affairs/14931-suchitra-sen-passes-away.html#post225605

 

[renuka]

Renukaji,



Yeah. Indeed so. They need, at times, to be handcuffed and whipped to bring them down to firm ground from the rarified heights where they keep floating always. Or else they have to meet with an accident when they realize that they are not after all the centre of all the world. A casual look becomes "look viduthal" and a casual decent smile recognizing the person's presence becomes drooling in the limited vocabulary of such rakshasis. Until a rakshasan comes and brings them down to firm grounds. LOL.

LOL! Obviously someone is not familiar with S&M!LOL

BTW I have no idea why people think beauty makes anyone proud..the average human especially the Indian..rarely look after their looks and body..even a former Miss World from India did not keep her weight down after child birth.

Most Indians are actually complacent as they age and let themselves fade away in looks..so technically beauty for the average Indian does not last too long..so where is the reason to be proud anymore?

On the other hand those with brains might not experience sharp intellectual ability when dementia or senility sets in.

So you see nothing really lasts in the world.

Since you mentioned that one needs to meet an accident..that is basically not a good wish for anyone.
If you had seen accident victims in your life die right in front of your eyes in the hospital or see a person becoming invalid in a split second..you would never wish that for anyone.

A human life is a human life..wishing an accident or morbidity for someone to make them realize that they are not the centre of the world is a rather unsattava sort of dark desire...surprised this came from you.

BTW Rakshashans are always good looking and brainy..they know the rules of the game..handcuffs,blindfold and all!LOL

 

[renuka]

Isnt it weird??

A woman who has beauty and brains is considered dangerous but a man with looks and brains is supposed to be Gods gift to mankind!LOL

Women are their own worst enemies..they do not tolerate other good looking woman..ever seen all those females who protest for any Miss World contest?? It will be invariably some behenji!God knows what their problem is?? Cant they just admire beauty in others without feeling jealous?

These women should jut check out the hot bodies of these Miss World contestants and at least try to work out and exercise to get some hot bod too..we can always use a beautiful woman as an icon for us to set some goals in looking better.

Jealousy does not do anyone any good its just shows our own insecurity.

 

[renuka]

We can create at least an 'ashtOthram' for these 'intoxicated' women with English and Tamil words! :blah:

P P (mentioned earlier), head weight, Lord, thala(i) ganam, thimiru pidichchava, ahangAri, adangA pidAri, thAnthONi, thAnAvadhi and so on.......

BTW, which language is 'kithAppu'??

Dear RR ji,

One does not have to be beautiful to have all these traits..you would be surprised to know that people who dont measure up on any scale have pride that knows no boundaries.

I know a person who is not that great in the looks department or even in the brains department but her ego knows no boundary cos she is from a well to do family and keeps bragging about her family even though she is not that highly placed herself.She has very few friends cos of this.

So you see people can be proud for no reason at all.

But surprisingly when a man is intoxicated with Pride of who knows what ...people see it that he earned his bragging rights!LOL

 

[Raji Ram]

.......... I know a person who is not that great in the looks department or even in the brains department but her ego knows no boundary cos she is from a well to do family and keeps bragging about her family even though she is not that highly placed herself. She has very few friends cos of this.
.....L

Dear Renu,
See the line in bold letters in the quote. Did I not write earlier that egoistic females are NOT liked by men and women! :decision:

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu,
See the line in bold letters in the quote. Did I not write earlier that egoistic females are NOT liked by men and women! :decision:

RR ji,
Agreed..so its shows that we like or dislike people cos of their nature and not becos they possess beauty or brains or both.

 

[Raji Ram]

RR ji,
Agreed..so its shows that we like or dislike people cos of their nature and not becos they possess beauty or brains or both.

100% truth and nothing but the truth!!

 

[krish44]

100% truth and nothing but the truth!!

I have always wondered what makes people like strangers of opposite sex . beauty,brains and what else. may be heart and a certain amount of self deception that you like the other party. It is all in owns head . familiarity many times does not do away with the basic liking of a person

 

[vgane]

I have always wondered what makes people like strangers of opposite sex . beauty,brains and what else. may be heart and a certain amount of self deception that you like the other party. It is all in owns head . familiarity many times does not do away with the basic liking of a person

Despite all of this you may not attract the other person...What is required is a perfect smile that will entice!

 

[krish44]

Despite all of thi. LOLs you may not attract the other person...What is required is a perfect smile that will entice!

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many gents cannot give a colgate smile. if you smile at a stranger of opposite sex they might think you are kilpauk case.LOL

 

[renuka]

Well there is an intelligent and gorgeous looking male who got himself in a dangerous situation now...Shashi Tharoor.

 

[Vaagmi]

Well there is an intelligent and gorgeous looking male who got himself in a dangerous situation now...Shashi Tharoor.

Gorgeous looking, may be depending who is looking at him. But intelligent? Who said that? A hare brained journalist? LOL.

 

[renuka]

Gorgeous looking, may be depending who is looking at him. But intelligent? Who said that? A hare brained journalist? LOL.

He is Palakad Iyer isnt it? So with Sattva genes shouldnt he be intelligent? He had a Phd at the age of 23.

BTW read this from Wikipedia.

After his parents returned to India, he began his schooling at Montfort School in Yercaud, Tamil Nadu, and Campion School inMumbai, and attended high school at St. Xavier's Collegiate School in Kolkata.[SUP][5][/SUP] Tharoor subsequently obtained a Bachelor of Artsdegree in history from St. Stephen's College in Delhi.[SUP][6][/SUP] and went on to pursue graduate studies at The Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy at Tufts University, from where he obtained an M.A in 1976, an M.A.L.D in 1977 and a Ph.D. in 1979 at age 23.[SUP][[/SUP]

 

[ashwin_ash]

He is Palakad Iyer isnt it? So with Sattva genes shouldnt he be intelligent? He had a Phd at the age of 23.

BTW read this from Wikipedia.

He is from a prominent Nair family. Anyway, Sattva or Levis or Prada Jeans, how does it matter. All is fair in politics.. take the case of your very own beloved Anwar Ibrahim!!

 

[Vaagmi]

He is Palakad Iyer isnt it? So with Sattva genes shouldnt he be intelligent? He had a Phd at the age of 23.

BTW read this from Wikipedia.

He is a Nair.

Obviously there are equal number of non sattva genes dragging down the sattva ones.

Sunanda Pushkar his latest wife died under mysterious circumstances and an enquiry is on. She had admittedly gone through a severe depression. According to the Doctor who conducted the post-mortem examination, there were physical injuries on her body. She has been cremated and Tharoor got admitted in a hospital as he was not well.

A Ph.D does not mean much in real terms.

 

[renuka]

He is from a prominent Nair family. Anyway, Sattva or Levis or Prada Jeans, how does it matter. All is fair in politics.. take the case of your very own beloved Anwar Ibrahim!!

Ash..you tak faham lah!

You missed some stuff when you were absent from forum..you have no idea about the Vaagmi Gene theory.

Nanti saya bagi tau Ok.

 

[Vaagmi]

Ash..you tak faham lah!

You missed some stuff when you were absent from forum..you have no idea about the Vaagmi Gene theory.

Nanti saya bagi tau Ok.

I can understand what is going to be the saya bagi tau. She has already told you that it is Vaagmi Gene theory. That is completely off the mark. She may take you through a merry go round to prove her own gene theory. Better go to Google and search for the name Robert Boyd and Peter Richarson anthropologists in the University of California Los Angeles. You will get a gene theory which speaks about how culture mutates genes proved with research findings. After going through that work get back and speak to Renuka.