Women and engineer problem in marriage

[Raji Ram]

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dear raji, renu,

1. i would beg to disagree. .........

2. just go to a wedding occassion, and hear the sarak sarak of all the silks rubbing against each other and feel the natural sense of grandeur - looks great irrespective of the size of the persons. no?

Dear Sir,

My point is

Because those ladies with a slender waist, the saree is now the most revealing dress.

2. Very true! See my explanation for 'sabai niRanju irukkum!'

 

[renuka]

Sex object (females) in no time will turn out to be a lust object (females)!! This is universal human truth.

When a female who wish to be a sex object BUT don't want to be a lust object of the person she do not fancy, how can she control and escape the pulsating lust full urge of some men who could fancy her?

YES!! Law and order is there. BUT, when and to what extent the law can come to her rescue and totally revert the physical and mental damage caused to her, when its too late?

Fortunately or unfortunately women now have the courage and intellect to go on a nude protest, stating - "MY BODY MY FREEDOM. I can wish to expose anything to any extent and you MEN have no rights to attack us". Sounds really human and legal!!

You seem to have forgotten the law of nature.

A female is supposed to attract and a male is supposed to chase.

So nature intended continuation of species and no one can run away from these urges except a few realized souls..after all why do you think guys in the thread itself are lamenting for the lack of a mate??

Yes you are right...a female has the right to go nude in the right places for example in a nudist beach or may be in a movie as long it is legal it is fine.

Now attacking and raping is illegal cos even in the animal kingdom...the female who is attracting a bunch of males only gives consent to the male who finally wins her.

So the key word is CONSENT.

Consent needs to be respected..consent from a female commercial sex worker too needs to be sought before the client and her make a business transaction.

BTW you said:

When a female who wish to be a sex object BUT don't want to be a lust object of the person she do not fancy, how can she control and escape the pulsating lust full urge of some men who could fancy her?

A woman cares only for the person she fancies....u see in a group dance in a movie..a hero only concentrates on the heroine and not the sidey female dancers and a heroine only concentrates on the hero and not the sidey male dancers.

So same here...who cares about the pulsating sideys??LOL

Too bad..the best man wins..life is a raw fight..only those who can fight..survive.

Or to look at it in another way...one can look at it as a Seva for temporary providing some pulsating urges in the guys a female does not fancy.

If the guys tend feel bad about it we can always tell them "my dear..this is Maya"!LOL

 

[Raji Ram]

...... A female is supposed to attract and a male is supposed to chase..........

Dear Renu,

Is it not surprising to find many male animals and birds look prettier than the females but still the male only chases! :lol:

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu,

Is it not surprising to find many male animals and birds look prettier than the females but still the male only chases! :lol:

Dear RR ji,

Its all Pheromones that attracts the male to a female......if we tune in to Nat Geo Wild and see the mating rituals of most animals..the females are giving out enough signals of the "come get me" kind to the males.

Then the males fight with each other to get the female..some even die in that process.

See how much a peacock needs to dance and get a peahen?

So same way guys need to work hard to get a female..but instead of working hard all they do is complain complain complain!LOL

Animals do not complain..they just go get what they desire and do not even mind dying for it.

That bravery is lacking in most males these days...they want an easy way out and expect females to be chasing them as if they are Gods.

Even Greek Gods chased women!LOL(not to say that our own Devas never chased anyone)

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Renu,

A male has to be good looking and strong to win a female where as a female CAN win a male anyway!

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu,

A male has to be good looking and strong to win a female where as a female CAN win a male anyway!

Dear RR ji,

You are only half right...you are right about the male part where he has to be good looking and strong.

For a female..she has to be good looking even without brains its fine.

But females have to play down their brains a little to attract males.

Males somehow are not 100% comfortable with an intelligent female.

So the trick is to make a male believe that he is smarter than a female and let him live in that bliss...(when in reality the female might be smarter).

 

[Raji Ram]

.......... For a female..she has to be good looking even without brains its fine.

But females have to play down their brains a little to attract males.

Males somehow are not 100% comfortable with an intelligent female.......

Yes! True for human species!

A funny dialogue:

He: Do you know that the world is not flat as it appears?

She: Oh! Is it? I am NOT at all aware of this!!

 

[renuka]

Yes! True for human species!

A funny dialogue:

He: Do you know that the world is not flat as it appears?

She: Oh! Is it? I am NOT at all aware of this!!

He: Do you know that the world is not as flat as it appears?

She:World?? Where is that??

 

[Raji Ram]

He: Do you know that the world is not as flat as it appears?

She:World?? Where is that??

. . . :clap2:

 

[sarang]

There is none to stare.

"Saudi Arabia Kicks Men Out Of Country for Being “Too Handsome”
Also at the festival in the capital Riyadh, several Saudi religious police men stormed the UAE pavilion on Sunday and evicted three Emirati young men because “they are too handsome,” according to the Saudi news website Elaph.
A U-Tube film published in Saudi newspapers this week showed national guard members were evicting a member of the feared Commission for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice from the UAE pavilion at Genaderia festivities in Riyadh after he stormed the stand. The incident triggered furor in the Kingdom, with the Commission Chairman Abdul Latif Al Shaikh calling for an investigation.
In its report, Elaph said several religious cops deployed through the festival rushed into the UAE pavilion on Sunday and escorted three Emirati delegates out.
The answer may be a Burqa for men.

Saudi Arabia Kicks Men Out Of Country for Being ?Too Handsome? | FrontPage Magazine

I am very uncomfortable with women wearing a full burkha that even covers their eyes. How then do we know who they are ogling?

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[renuka]

There is none to stare.

"Saudi Arabia Kicks Men Out Of Country for Being “Too Handsome”

Saudi Arabia Kicks Men Out Of Country for Being ?Too Handsome? | FrontPage Magazine

That shows that woman do look at men too!LOL

 

[sarang]

Like Einstein; early in their marriage, they decided that all major decisions will be taken by the husband and all minor decisions will be taken by the wife. In their entire life there was no occasion for a 'major decision'.

Dear RR ji,

You are only half right...you are right about the male part where he has to be good looking and strong.

For a female..she has to be good looking even without brains its fine.

But females have to play down their brains a little to attract males.

Males somehow are not 100% comfortable with an intelligent female.

So the trick is to make a male believe that he is smarter than a female and let him live in that bliss...(when in reality the female might be smarter).

 

[sarang]

Proof now made public!!

That shows that woman do look at men too!LOL

 

[Raji Ram]

Like Einstein; early in their marriage, they decided that all major decisions will be taken by the husband and all minor decisions will be taken by the wife. In their entire life there was no occasion for a 'major decision'.

Dear Sir,

It is also said that major decisions like paying tax, paying insurance etc will be by men and

minor decisions like buying a house, jewels, education and wedding of children etc will be by women!

 

[renuka]

Proof now made public!!

There is no doubt about that.

Women too look at men.

If a 6 feet drop dead good looking Greek God comes down to earth..surely any women will look.

 

[Raji Ram]

There is no doubt about that.

Women too look at men.......

Even middle aged mAmis say 'I love you' to Surya in TV shows! :lol:

 

[sarang]

All action is by men only; only decisions are left to women. It is better this way because, if the decision is wrong, it is buried, and executioner is never tormented. Imagine if the hubby's decision is wrong it will always be thrown at his face 'till death do us part'.

Dear Sir,

It is also said that major decisions like paying tax, paying insurance etc will be by men and

minor decisions like buying a house, jewels, education and wedding of children etc will be by women!

 

[Haridasa Siva]

There is no doubt about that.

Women too look at men.

If a 6 feet drop dead good looking Greek God comes down to earth..surely any women will look.

Renu,

If I have to put it in your style (your post no.333):

She: Did you look at this 6 feet drop dead good looking Greek God?
He: (gasping) I am an athiest. :tea:

 

[Raji Ram]

All action is by men only; only decisions are left to women. It is better this way because, if the decision is wrong, it is buried, and executioner is never tormented. ........

Good logic! :thumb:

 

[renuka]

Even middle aged mAmis say 'I love you' to Surya in TV shows! :lol:

Dear RR ji,

At least they appreciate their movie stars..

Now this is a true story..happened in Batu Caves Malaysia a few years ago.

Now Batu Caves has the world's tallest Lord Muruga statue so many movies are shot there too.

So one evening when we went to pray..we saw some Film Crew from India there.

My mum wanted to go to a shop and she was walkinga alone... a young man walking in front of her suddenly stopped walking and my mum almost hit into him.

So he turned around and apologized to her and he told her he has come here for film shooting and he told her his name and he was a Telegu actor.(I dont want to write his name here cos he is quite a famous young budding actor)

My mum told me this later and I was "wow..what did you tell him"

You know what my mum told him "I haven't heard of you before..you must be very young...that is why I don't know you"

I told my mum that at least she could have just smiled and spoken a few nice words to him instead of saying 'I havent heard of you before"

 

[Raji Ram]

Dear Renu,

This 'lovvu' for Surya is not just 'affection' and you can understand if you see the twinkle in their eyes!! :spy:

 

[renuka]

Dear Renu,

This 'lovvu' for Surya is not just 'affection' and you can understand if you see the twinkle in their eyes!! :spy:

LOL! I thought it was Motherly affection!

 

[Raji Ram]

Not only 'engineeri's but others too have problems in getting the 'correct' match because of these conditions laid.

This girl is a 25 year old post graduate in commerce. (M. Com)

Now the ad from her parents:

"We are on the look for a boy between the ages of 25-28 years. He should professionally qualified as a CA,

Masters in Computers/Engineering or any other senior professional category & also should be well employed

& well settled. He should be smart & handsome.The boy should have clean habits (non-smoker & non-drinker)"

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Caution for boys who want to get married.

1. Don't run after girls while studying and fail in your exams!

2. Always get professional degrees as mention above.

3. Never ever think 'beauty is skin deep' and avoid visits to spas for MEN.

4. Get good employment before it is too late! Your salary too should be handsome

5. Do not smoke. (saves money to spend to visit Spa)

6. Do not touch alcohol. (saves money to spend to visit Spa)

7. Have 'clean habits' whatever it means!

Added to these.

8. Don't have the slightest idea to bring your parent(s) to live with you!

9. Remember that 'take home pay has a hidden meaning - hand over to better-half!

10. Try to get married before you hit 30!
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P.S: 'Engineeri' = female engineer!

 

[Raji Ram]

One more ad. from graduate girl's parents.

Good news is ... guys upto 35, with overseas employment, still have a chance! :thumb:

"We are looking marriage alliance for my daughter. 26 yrs / B.COM / 5'7” Height / Very Fair / Divorcee /

Bharadwaja Gothram / Pooradam / Brahmin Iyer / Vadama / Kerala. The Groom should be from a Brahmin

Iyer family, loving caring, understanding, well Educated, well Settled with no bad habits; Divorcee / waiting

divorce / unmarried / age below 35 / Height above 5'10” / preferred located abroad. We are not interested

in horoscope matching."

 

[tbs]

One more ad. from graduate girl's parents.

Good news is ... guys upto 35, with overseas employment, still have a chance! :thumb:

"We are looking marriage alliance for my daughter. 26 yrs / B.COM / 5'7” Height / Very Fair / Divorcee /

Bharadwaja Gothram / Pooradam / Brahmin Iyer / Vadama / Kerala. The Groom should be from a Brahmin

Iyer family, loving caring, understanding, well Educated, well Settled with no bad habits; Divorcee / waiting

divorce / unmarried / age below 35 / Height above 5'10” / preferred located abroad. We are not interested

in horoscope matching."

hi RR madam,

if i apply for present day marriage market ad...i may not get a gal......i was lucky that i got more than 50 proposals and

had many sojji/bajji weekends.......now the golden days are gone......