Iyer,
i too cannot waer panchakaccham and go to office sir.I prefer regular shirt and pant,with a nice haircut.No kudumi business,at least in my age.
Regarding american influence,its unfortunate that hollywood and tv style of portrayal,is giving wrong influence,to masses.Americans are extremely sensible people,excellent work ethics and stupendous schools of learning.Young people are on their own ,soon after graduating from high school,They have to fund their education either thru loans,grants,scholarship ,student aids,internship.Only a limited class of people fund their childrens education.Americans become very adult like in a relatively young age,comparing with our youths.
Moreover American has never been invaded by aliens,unlike us.Girls and boys date,and openly in pursuit of happiness.This freedom is the actual,magnet for people worldover,to imitate.But,most forget the hardships young americans undergo.
We Indians are conservative lot,and we like our culture.Our values are sound with principles according to elders prescription,and we should follow our tradition and culture.Letting of steam once in a while is acceptable sir,we are no prudes.
nachi naga.