Hai,
I am not too young I was born 3 decades ago, still I am little childish, thats the way I would like to be ... any how
as a elder friend could u tell me how to understand a female and any tips that would help me in this regard
bye
sreenivasa Chary
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I am older to you too..so let me offer help to you as an elder friend.
Ok boy..since you want to understand females.Let me caution you that we females ourselves sometimes don't really understand ourselves too well.
Anyway the best advise always comes from people who don't really understand themselves too well so I can help out here.
Ok..i will go point form.
1)In life when we analyze too much we kind of get no where..seen this in lots of my patients..who land in lots of problems cos they tend to over analyze and eventually need anti depressants.
2)Take life as it comes.Dont think of yesterday or even tomorrow cos we only and always have the present.
Same with understanding woman..no need to be like Cheran (Autograph) and compare and contrast as in Gnabagam Varuthey and end up ruining the present with which ever female we are with at present.
Most guys who do this eventually sing Kadavul Pathi Mirugam Pathi and become a Psycho.
3)You have to understand that woman are estrogen based creatures and the estrogenic cycle is like waxing and waning of the moon on the mind.So sometimes you see some Bipolar types of behavior in some or most woman too.
Dont try to understand this..cos I dont too.
4)Woman like attention and love from the person they LOVE and let it be a constant supply .
5)Pay the woman you love regular attention.Shower her with suprises from time to time..not gifts but some form of attention.
6)You have to understand that the modern woman is trying to balance being a career woman and a home maker and this sometimes makes her tired mentally so she would like the man she loves to be there for her when she wants to talk and also to help her out in duties.
7)Dont try to control or change a woman.Many men chase after a woman totally opposite of what they like and try to mould her to fit into their imagination.This is hard cos no one really can change.
So go for a woman who is your dream girl and not try to make her your dream girl..you will end up in a nightmare!!
8)Don't compare a woman with your mother or sisters.Many men tend to do this and ruin relationships.No two people are alike.Even identical twins have different finger prints.
9)Never imagine too much of how you even want marriage to be.Life is a challenge we have to face it on daily basis.
Some guys build too many castles in the air about how marriage should be and when things don't turn out the way they want it..everthing crumbles.
10)Last but not least..Do you understand what you really want to know?
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