Raavan could not force himself on Sita for this simple reason: He had been cursed by a beauty whom he violated that if ever he forced himself on any woman in future, his head would burst into a thousand pieces. Otherwise why he would beg and plead to a mere mortal and make himself a laughing stock in the eyes of his other wives and lovers in his harem?
You know I really don't buy into this whole theory that the Ramayana happened because Ravana lusted for Sita. There is no solid ground to believe that Sita was a jaw-dropping beauty. Of course being the heroine of the story, the authors naturally made the usual assumptions. I think this is too big an epic to characterize it as one man/demon/whatever pursuing a woman/goddess/whatever. If you read through it, it was more like Ravana having an ego problem with Rama and the southward-moving northerners and playing a complicated game to crush them. Sita just was a convenient person to kidnap so that Rama could be entrapped. She was held hostage so that Rama could be lured in and defeated. It just didn't turn out that way. To those who talk about Ravana's love/lust for Sita, I have one simple question. Why didn't he force himself on to her?
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