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I am surprised that some post regarding the question of "Gothram" of a boy born to a divorcee woman (not remarried) living in USA, and getting a male child through AI with the sperm of some anglo-saxon male, could evoke this much of discussions. It shows that we Tabras, as a community, still attach a lot of importance (possibly undue) to the Gothram concept.
There were several threads in the past discussing this Gothram issue in its various facets and a search of the archives will bring up many threads, I am sure. But I would like to reiterate that our "Gothram" concept seems to be the metamorphosis of the primitive tribal concepts, which still strongly govern our tribal populations as also the Maasai and other tribes in Africa even today. The word Gothram stands for, or denotes, a cattle pen or corral. It is quite possible that when the Gothram concept evolved among the Vedic people (i.e., Hindus) this "tribe consciousness" was still very fresh and strong and each person was identified by his/her Gothram, as our "abhivaadaye" mantras still do. Marriage is known as vivāha and this word means 'carrying away of in a special way' (viśeṣeṇa vāhayati iti); it is interesting to note that among some tribes, even in India, it was the practice to forcibly take away unmarried girls from other tribes and marry them, because the children born in the Gothra did not have known parentage, due to very permissive sex-codes, and hence all children belonging to the tribe were supposed to be siblings (Just as we have "All Indians are my brothers and sisters" recited in our school prayer! Perhaps, this is at the root of our opposition to 'sagothra' marriages.
When people started sporting their Gothras, in due course, they named their Gothras after some well-known personality within their clan or tribe and this, in due course of time, changed to one of the well-known ṛṣis. Further refinements came about as time passed.
If we are prepared to accept the above, then we need not unnecessarily bother about Gothras nor do we need to change the mindset of people who believe that Gothras indicate patrilineal, alumnii etc., lineages.
There were several threads in the past discussing this Gothram issue in its various facets and a search of the archives will bring up many threads, I am sure. But I would like to reiterate that our "Gothram" concept seems to be the metamorphosis of the primitive tribal concepts, which still strongly govern our tribal populations as also the Maasai and other tribes in Africa even today. The word Gothram stands for, or denotes, a cattle pen or corral. It is quite possible that when the Gothram concept evolved among the Vedic people (i.e., Hindus) this "tribe consciousness" was still very fresh and strong and each person was identified by his/her Gothram, as our "abhivaadaye" mantras still do. Marriage is known as vivāha and this word means 'carrying away of in a special way' (viśeṣeṇa vāhayati iti); it is interesting to note that among some tribes, even in India, it was the practice to forcibly take away unmarried girls from other tribes and marry them, because the children born in the Gothra did not have known parentage, due to very permissive sex-codes, and hence all children belonging to the tribe were supposed to be siblings (Just as we have "All Indians are my brothers and sisters" recited in our school prayer! Perhaps, this is at the root of our opposition to 'sagothra' marriages.
When people started sporting their Gothras, in due course, they named their Gothras after some well-known personality within their clan or tribe and this, in due course of time, changed to one of the well-known ṛṣis. Further refinements came about as time passed.
If we are prepared to accept the above, then we need not unnecessarily bother about Gothras nor do we need to change the mindset of people who believe that Gothras indicate patrilineal, alumnii etc., lineages.