Delhi6 Bhai,
It is your misconception that many following threads on the topic of "TB culture" and "indecent dressing of some women" are the outcome of despondency of "one particular member", that's me.
I said you were coming across as increasingly despondent or atleast thats how it appeared to me given the tone of your posts became sharper with every post here(or atleast thats how it appeared to me.)
I NEVER said its your despondency that is responsible for all the threads on similar issues. This is what I said:
" However due to
despondency of one particular member (C. Ravi bhai thats you), a sudden flurry of threads on somewhat related topics and attendant demonisation of females especially TB's I have decided to post."
All it meant was that there was a sudden flurry of threads when I logged into forum after a sometime and It appeared to me that your tone is getting increasingly despondent. These things happened independently. No where does it imply that its your despondency that is the sole reason for all these threads. Hope I have cleared this thing. I don't want any bad blood.
To repeat its your response, which I felt what I felt, that brought forth my response. I never accused you of being the reason for all these threads.
It clearly shows your utter lack of understanding my stand or
shows that you are just representing on behalf of select others.
Trust me I do not know any member here, so if I am representing anybody its moi only.
So pity!!
Thanks for the judgement.
Your above post is absolutely irrelevant in this thread.
Fair enough if you feel so.
Dunno what you want to establish by giving detailed history of your mixed up family?
Errrr. Maybe to establish a context as to where I am coming from.
We know that there are many
mixed up generations existed and would continue to exist. It is the outcome of individuals choice. No one can do anything about it.
Many members do have high regard and respect for ladies, including myself.
You are not the one super hero here.
Never claimed to be one, please show me where did I make such an assertion. If it was that I hugely respect Career woman then the reason for that are very personal, It was in no way an attempt to belittle you and I said so in my posts as well.
You are ridiculously making an attempt to castigate male members who are posting in this thread topic, hinting at them as folks with no respect for ladies.
Please I didn't.
You are utterly confused probably like few others here.
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Thanks a lot for Judgement.
Ironically you want me to read your irrelevant post! LOL!!!
It was an attempt in good faith by me, however if you feel its irrelevant then so be it.
The topic here is to highlight "those" TB girls who want to stick to Tambram community and so are in the marriage market, expressing their unreasonable demands and expectations from TB guys. The whole debate is revolving around this.
If these girl want to get mixed up with other caste who gonna stop them??
Trust me whatever little I know about TB females, Nobody can.
If they so wish, why they still are in search of Jack Pot from the same community? Rather, why don't they search every where and get married before they hit at least 30 years of age?? Why they still continue to remain single at their age of 30-35+ and are interviewing TB guys on phones and chat along with their parents? Why are they wasting time restricting themselves to TB guys and losing the charm of their life?
Ask these questions to them in person without flinching. They may give a reply.
As long as Tb girls at 30-35 years of age continue to appear in TB marriage market and express that they are looking for Brahmin guys, such questions as indicated above would continue to exist.
Which is fair enough
Try to understand the gist of the thread topic and the posts that are appearing here.
Pretty presumptuous if you think I didn't get the gist of the post. Isn't it possible that I indeed got the gist and then deliberately addressed a post to you in good faith. In my naive belief that I could be of some help.
This is not a
rocket science to find it hard to understand.
Of course it is not. As a trained one I should know ( even if I sleepwalked my way through engineering:biggrin1
Despite of my so many post on the basis of above questions to these girls, still many long standing members are unable to grasp the import. I can understand your situation.
Thanks for your understanding (am I allowed to say condescension as well.)
One more suggestion. You
should go through all the post of a member to understand better about his/her stand before coming to such
ridiculous conclusion.
As to former what makes you think I was not following this thread from the beginning, as for the latter: Did it appear to you I was very civil in my posts directed to you because I do remember posting that you are genuinely concerned and are mild mannered enough. It was the broad brush you chose to paint with AND my perception that your posts were gradually becoming edgy that prompted me to post. Now since you say my perception was erroneous, I will leave it at that
Introspect on the above to understand what myself and like minded male and female members here are expressing.
Thanks for the advice( and condescension. Again my perception.)
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